I am playing a shadow monk 3/hexblade 1 tortle who is a follower of the Raven Queen in my current campaign. I know that there isn't much out there (at least that I can find) about how followers of the Raven Queen should behave. I did have a discussion about this with my DM before the campaign started and I thought that everything was taking care of. However, now he is saying things that are making me think that my character is not following the queen the way he thinks he should. I am going to have another discussion with him but I wanted to gather some thoughts from others about how they believe a monk/hexblade of the Raven Queen should behave(strictly in regards to a pleasing his patron/deity).
I currently and acting on the following aspects:
-She is neither good nor evil, too much good is just as bad as too much evil, balance
-She is a deity of fate, not that the path is set for you but the choices that you will have to make are, Fate is the equalizer(mortals and immortals alike will face fate)
-Memories are of the most precious things one can obtain
-She hates the undead because of the rivalry with Orcus
What do you think of these tenets? How do you think a follower of the Raven Queen should behave? Please give me any thoughts of advice.