Guys I'm just starting to get back into dating. I'm gay so I don't meet that many people who are "my type," per se, in normal daily life. Especially now that normal daily life is not going outside. So I've had some matches on my favorite dating apps and I would normally ask them to go one a walk with me or something so we can get to know each other, but that's definitely not gonna happen.
Anyone got any good ideas for a long-distance first date? I'm thinking calling or skyping for like 30 minutes while I go for a walk might be good. Thoughts?
I'm old enough to drive and have had a couple of boyfriends, is that close enough?
I think skyping is probably your best bet until everything calms down. Introduce pets if y'all have any! If they (or you if you decide to not go on a walk) can play an instrument, have them give you a short concert! I've done it before - it's pretty cool. Sorry if my advice sucks - it's currently 12 AM :)
Legal adult here! I know I find it super cute to watch movies "together," where you Skype/call each other while you each watch a classic home movie that you start at the exact same time.
Before there was Tinder / Facebook and others dating social sites, I began my 1st long distance date with a girl on the old YAHOO Chats.... if anyone remember that website.
I wanted to date with a girl, so I randomly started to say Hi to sokme girls there. I found one who was living in the same country as me, so we started sharing our mobile phone numbers and some pics. Then, months later, she begged me to come to the city she was living but, I was so broke ( no salary income and other elses ). I told her to wait until I had the enough money to travel and spend some days there. She was EVERYDAY begging me to come. And I repeated her I cannot come there because I need to save money and blahblahblah..... Then, 3 months later, while I was still in love with her, I made a poem ( my 1st poem of LOVE !! in only 3 days !! ).
I wanted to keep the poem "in secret" to later give it to her as a gift. Then, one day I phoned her just to tell her I'm now ready to go there. She responded me in a different way than the usual, which it gave me the chance to suspect she lied about anything. What it was my surprise when she said: " Heyy Dear, I wanna confess you a thing... you know ??? Are you angry ?? I love you but, I have to tell you a thing".
I responded her to tell me what's up, and if there's anything wrong.... so she just said " Oh.. no no no no... there's nothing wrong.... I just wanna confess you a thing. ".
Then, the next day I decided to pay a Line BUS to her city ( withouth telling her anything about it ). It tooks me 5 hours to arrive there, plus an extra Taxi. And, when I finally arrived there I phoned her, Her voice was a bit nervous but, she decided to meet us on a Pub, ""only for some minutes, because she had to do something she didn't told me". She kissed me ( not on the mouth ), that was so obviously suspicious.
Gues what she wanted to confess :
SHE: Honey, do you remember when I told you, months ago, I took a break with my boy ??? ..........................
ME : ........................................................................... ( poker face in 3....... 2......................... 1..................... )
SHE : Thanks for visiting me but, I'm late. I MUST go. BYE BYE.....
Conclussion : Long distance dates can be either a MESS or a WIN. So, the less time you waste waiting for that date, the best date will be.
23 years later I still remember her name and surname................... FFUUUUUUuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu !!!!!
By the way, I never told her I made the poem nore I gave it to her.
Haiiiiii, I’m Druid! (he/they/it/moth/fae) I'm a smol insane queer lil' mess with a terrible mental state! I'm also a therian and furry :3 My current hyperfixation is Hazbin Hotel (my favorite character is Angel Dust), so if you wanna chat about that, I'm always happy to. My PMs are open if you need to talk or vent, though I must admit I'm a bad therapist.
Lol that John Smith guy seems to be posting a poorly disguised advertisement for mail order brides from Mexico. Perhaps he didn't read the original post from (as you guys noted) over 4 years ago: I am gay. I am not interested in women, Mexican or otherwise. Also I'm pretty sure that might be illegal in the US.
Guys I'm just starting to get back into dating. I'm gay so I don't meet that many people who are "my type," per se, in normal daily life. Especially now that normal daily life is not going outside. So I've had some matches on my favorite dating apps and I would normally ask them to go one a walk with me or something so we can get to know each other, but that's definitely not gonna happen.
Anyone got any good ideas for a long-distance first date? I'm thinking calling or skyping for like 30 minutes while I go for a walk might be good. Thoughts?
I am 13 years old. : /
I can't help you in other words.
"A Jack Of All Trades is a master of none"
'That's why I hate Bards'
Aldrek you'll get it one day. You'll get it one day.
Actually wait. You probably won't live through another major pandemic - they don't come around that often. So I take it back.
You'll never understand.
: (
What a shame.
"A Jack Of All Trades is a master of none"
'That's why I hate Bards'
Me being the crackhead 12-year old I am, I wish I could help, but I cant. :(
Characters:
Borin, mountain dwarf cleric (knowledge) (inactive)
Varis Ilphelkiir, high elf bard (swords) (inactive)
Reckoner, warforged fighter (eldritch knight) (inactive)
Archduke Gerald, half-orc warlock (pact of the fire elemental) (inactive)
Kurak of Yini Chai, changeling sorcerer (blue draconic bloodline) (active)
Aren't there legal adults on this forum?
I'm old enough to drive and have had a couple of boyfriends, is that close enough?
I think skyping is probably your best bet until everything calms down. Introduce pets if y'all have any! If they (or you if you decide to not go on a walk) can play an instrument, have them give you a short concert! I've done it before - it's pretty cool. Sorry if my advice sucks - it's currently 12 AM :)
No, Calix, those are some pretty good ideas! Thanks!
Yeah, of course! Hope it goes well for you :)
Legal adult here! I know I find it super cute to watch movies "together," where you Skype/call each other while you each watch a classic home movie that you start at the exact same time.
Wizard (Gandalf) of the Tolkien Club
Before there was Tinder / Facebook and others dating social sites, I began my 1st long distance date with a girl on the old YAHOO Chats.... if anyone remember that website.
I wanted to date with a girl, so I randomly started to say Hi to sokme girls there. I found one who was living in the same country as me, so we started sharing our mobile phone numbers and some pics. Then, months later, she begged me to come to the city she was living but, I was so broke ( no salary income and other elses ). I told her to wait until I had the enough money to travel and spend some days there. She was EVERYDAY begging me to come. And I repeated her I cannot come there because I need to save money and blahblahblah..... Then, 3 months later, while I was still in love with her, I made a poem ( my 1st poem of LOVE !! in only 3 days !! ).
I wanted to keep the poem "in secret" to later give it to her as a gift. Then, one day I phoned her just to tell her I'm now ready to go there. She responded me in a different way than the usual, which it gave me the chance to suspect she lied about anything. What it was my surprise when she said: " Heyy Dear, I wanna confess you a thing... you know ??? Are you angry ?? I love you but, I have to tell you a thing".
I responded her to tell me what's up, and if there's anything wrong.... so she just said " Oh.. no no no no... there's nothing wrong.... I just wanna confess you a thing. ".
Then, the next day I decided to pay a Line BUS to her city ( withouth telling her anything about it ). It tooks me 5 hours to arrive there, plus an extra Taxi. And, when I finally arrived there I phoned her, Her voice was a bit nervous but, she decided to meet us on a Pub, ""only for some minutes, because she had to do something she didn't told me". She kissed me ( not on the mouth ), that was so obviously suspicious.
Gues what she wanted to confess :
SHE: Honey, do you remember when I told you, months ago, I took a break with my boy ??? ..........................
ME : ........................................................................... ( poker face in 3....... 2......................... 1..................... )
SHE : Thanks for visiting me but, I'm late. I MUST go. BYE BYE.....
Conclussion : Long distance dates can be either a MESS or a WIN. So, the less time you waste waiting for that date, the best date will be.
23 years later I still remember her name and surname................... FFUUUUUUuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu !!!!!
By the way, I never told her I made the poem nore I gave it to her.
My Ready-to-rock&roll chars:
Dertinus Tristany // Amilcar Barca // Vicenç Sacrarius // Oriol Deulofeu // Grovtuk
That was weird but ok
Characters:
Borin, mountain dwarf cleric (knowledge) (inactive)
Varis Ilphelkiir, high elf bard (swords) (inactive)
Reckoner, warforged fighter (eldritch knight) (inactive)
Archduke Gerald, half-orc warlock (pact of the fire elemental) (inactive)
Kurak of Yini Chai, changeling sorcerer (blue draconic bloodline) (active)
Roll a d20 !! The DC is 15.....
My Ready-to-rock&roll chars:
Dertinus Tristany // Amilcar Barca // Vicenç Sacrarius // Oriol Deulofeu // Grovtuk
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Yeah lol.
Haiiiiii, I’m Druid! (he/they/it/moth/fae) I'm a smol insane queer lil' mess with a terrible mental state! I'm also a therian and furry :3 My current hyperfixation is Hazbin Hotel (my favorite character is Angel Dust), so if you wanna chat about that, I'm always happy to. My PMs are open if you need to talk or vent, though I must admit I'm a bad therapist.
"tAkE tHaT, dEpReSsiOn!" -Lucifer Morningstar
Lol that John Smith guy seems to be posting a poorly disguised advertisement for mail order brides from Mexico. Perhaps he didn't read the original post from (as you guys noted) over 4 years ago: I am gay. I am not interested in women, Mexican or otherwise. Also I'm pretty sure that might be illegal in the US.
So sick of these bots. Devs need to get their site under control.
I wonder what Aldrek has learned about relationships in the last four years.
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