I’m fairly new to D&D, and I also DM a campaign with a bunch of my close friends and even siblings. I completely understand why you would want to be delicate about this- I do, too. Maybe there is a way to be kind about it, but still firm.
“Hey, guys. Recently, I’ve been struggling with DMing a lot because I feel like the plot is stunted when you guys kill my NPCs. Would it be okay if you could tone it down, so we could have a lighthearted game?”
They may not listen, so that’s when you may want to consider in-game consequences. Maybe have a bounty put on their head. A bounty hunter could hear about them, for example, and chase after them, sort of like the Mandolorian. This could put pressure on the character to change their alignment, and I would suggest talking to them one on one about the possibility of that.
If they still don’t listen, start small by removing them from one session. Be kind about it, of course, but real friends should be a little firm with each other, sometimes. If they have an issue, talk it out with them, but don’t take away the consequence. If the behavior continues, tell them you are considering removing them from the campaign. If they still don’t stop, then do so.
I know it’s hard, but a fun game between you and you’re other friends is absolutely worth it. Good luck!
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I’m fairly new to D&D, and I also DM a campaign with a bunch of my close friends and even siblings. I completely understand why you would want to be delicate about this- I do, too. Maybe there is a way to be kind about it, but still firm.
“Hey, guys. Recently, I’ve been struggling with DMing a lot because I feel like the plot is stunted when you guys kill my NPCs. Would it be okay if you could tone it down, so we could have a lighthearted game?”
They may not listen, so that’s when you may want to consider in-game consequences. Maybe have a bounty put on their head. A bounty hunter could hear about them, for example, and chase after them, sort of like the Mandolorian. This could put pressure on the character to change their alignment, and I would suggest talking to them one on one about the possibility of that.
If they still don’t listen, start small by removing them from one session. Be kind about it, of course, but real friends should be a little firm with each other, sometimes. If they have an issue, talk it out with them, but don’t take away the consequence. If the behavior continues, tell them you are considering removing them from the campaign. If they still don’t stop, then do so.
I know it’s hard, but a fun game between you and you’re other friends is absolutely worth it. Good luck!
My name is Darlene M, and I never imagined my life could change so fast. I was struggling with some unpaid bills and financial stress for years, and I was constantly wondering how people are able to win the lottery so big because I sometimes play the lottery but never won any big amount, I sought spiritual guidance from Chief Ade after I heard about him, how he has been helping people with the lottery winning numbers, and not long afterwards I won the $16,000,000 MILLION Lotto 6/49 Gold Ball jackpot with the numbers he gave me. That incredible win completely transformed my life. I was able to pay off all my debts, purchase a brand-new truck, and make sure my children had everything they needed to pursue their dreams. I also chose to share my good fortune by supporting local charities and helping families in need, because I know what it's like to struggle. I'm sharing this to remind whosoever seeing this that hope can inspire people to keep believing, even during difficult times. Email: chiefadespellhome@ gmail.com || Whats App +234 901 380 6328
My name is Darlene M, and I never imagined my life could change so fast. I was struggling with some unpaid bills and financial stress for years, and I was constantly wondering how people are able to win the lottery so big because I sometimes play the lottery but never won any big amount, I sought spiritual guidance from Chief Ade after I heard about him, how he has been helping people with the lottery winning numbers, and not long afterwards I won the $16,000,000 MILLION Lotto 6/49 Gold Ball jackpot with the numbers he gave me. That incredible win completely transformed my life. I was able to pay off all my debts, purchase a brand-new truck, and make sure my children had everything they needed to pursue their dreams. I also chose to share my good fortune by supporting local charities and helping families in need, because I know what it's like to struggle. I'm sharing this to remind whosoever seeing this that hope can inspire people to keep believing, even during difficult times. Email: chiefadespellhome@ gmail.com || Whats App +234 901 380 6328