Disabled queer player looking for accessible game

Game: D&D 3.5 or 5e
Group preferred: Online
Experience: Relatively new, knows how to set up a character.
Location/Timezone: Pacific (-7 or -8)
Availability: Every day except Saturday from 11am to 9pm
Preferred role: Player
Game style: I'd really love a roleplay-heavy homebrew game that's focused on building a story and character growth that's adjusted to the characters.

I'm very neurodivergent, and will need accommodations in order to be able to play, depending on the game. I'm also queer as heck, so any bigots are a big no.

We are currently hosting a Homebrew style game in need of a fourth, doing primarily over discord on Friday evenings 7pm-10pm EST