im struggling between what i want/need from people and what they can actually provide
*Summons chair and fancy therapist glasses* Sit down and elaborate
*half melts into a puddle of flop* My partner (we’ll call them x) told me they were going to tell their mother about us. Except x said this several weeks ago and keeps telling me they’ll do it this weekend, but there have been several ‘this weekends’ and i just really wish x had never said they were going to tell their parents because it hurts every time i ask if x has told their parents and their answer is …no im planning on doing it tonight. I really want this to be an official relationship that we can be open about and go on dates and formal things and whatnot but I’m not sure if x is actually capable of doing that.
also I think my expectations are just too high in general because i expect others to do for me what i would for them (which is probably more than is healthy)
I'm Fry, a doodler, writer, aspiring singer/songwriter, and sort-of youtuber (check me out!) goofin' around on the interwebs Soli Deo Gloria(Sed servus eius crustulum vult) I'm a disabled, neurodivergent, dumpster fire, and somewhat of a clown, but I do my best :3 Crafter of Constellations, vocaloid enjoyer, waluigi’s #1 fan, space alien, undead cutie pie, danganer of ronpas, and certified silly goose Internet big sib to aspeninthetrees, TheGatoLover, (and hopefully more)
im struggling between what i want/need from people and what they can actually provide
*Summons chair and fancy therapist glasses* Sit down and elaborate
*half melts into a puddle of flop* My partner (we’ll call them x) told me they were going to tell their mother about us. Except x said this several weeks ago and keeps telling me they’ll do it this weekend, but there have been several ‘this weekends’ and i just really wish x had never said they were going to tell their parents because it hurts every time i ask if x has told their parents and their answer is …no im planning on doing it tonight. I really want this to be an official relationship that we can be open about and go on dates and formal things and whatnot but I’m not sure if x is actually capable of doing that.
also I think my expectations are just too high in general because i expect others to do for me what i would for them (which is probably more than is healthy)
Have you tried just being straight with them? This may sound incredibly cliche and kinda cheesy, but communication is the key to any good relationship. Tell them what you expect of them as a partner. Maybe your expectations are too high. Then you can lower them to a more realistic level. If X keeps saying that they’re going to do y and z, but they keep delaying it, tell X how that makes you feel. Maybe they don’t realize that they’re hurting you. But in order to do all that, you have to say something
Or don’t, idk, I hate people too much to get in a relationship, so do with that what you will
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REACHING THE LINE DONT YOU TURN BACK NOW!
WE’RE GOING WEST TO EAST TO FIND THE STEEL BALL RUN!
im struggling between what i want/need from people and what they can actually provide
*Summons chair and fancy therapist glasses* Sit down and elaborate
*half melts into a puddle of flop* My partner (we’ll call them x) told me they were going to tell their mother about us. Except x said this several weeks ago and keeps telling me they’ll do it this weekend, but there have been several ‘this weekends’ and i just really wish x had never said they were going to tell their parents because it hurts every time i ask if x has told their parents and their answer is …no im planning on doing it tonight. I really want this to be an official relationship that we can be open about and go on dates and formal things and whatnot but I’m not sure if x is actually capable of doing that.
also I think my expectations are just too high in general because i expect others to do for me what i would for them (which is probably more than is healthy)
Have you tried just being straight with them? This may sound incredibly cliche and kinda cheesy, but communication is the key to any good relationship. Tell them what you expect of them as a partner. Maybe your expectations are too high. Then you can lower them to a more realistic level. If X keeps saying that they’re going to do y and z, but they keep delaying it, tell X how that makes you feel. Maybe they don’t realize that they’re hurting you. But in order to do all that, you have to say something
Or don’t, idk, I hate people too much to get in a relationship, so do with that what you will
Lmao this is why you’re one of my favorite people on here
i should. I will if they don’t talk to their mother again tonight. We have lunch together so it’s not like i won’t be able to find time. Thanks Himes.
im struggling between what i want/need from people and what they can actually provide
*Summons chair and fancy therapist glasses* Sit down and elaborate
*half melts into a puddle of flop* My partner (we’ll call them x) told me they were going to tell their mother about us. Except x said this several weeks ago and keeps telling me they’ll do it this weekend, but there have been several ‘this weekends’ and i just really wish x had never said they were going to tell their parents because it hurts every time i ask if x has told their parents and their answer is …no im planning on doing it tonight. I really want this to be an official relationship that we can be open about and go on dates and formal things and whatnot but I’m not sure if x is actually capable of doing that.
also I think my expectations are just too high in general because i expect others to do for me what i would for them (which is probably more than is healthy)
Have you tried just being straight with them? This may sound incredibly cliche and kinda cheesy, but communication is the key to any good relationship. Tell them what you expect of them as a partner. Maybe your expectations are too high. Then you can lower them to a more realistic level. If X keeps saying that they’re going to do y and z, but they keep delaying it, tell X how that makes you feel. Maybe they don’t realize that they’re hurting you. But in order to do all that, you have to say something
Or don’t, idk, I hate people too much to get in a relationship, so do with that what you will
Lmao this is why you’re one of my favorite people on here
i should. I will if they don’t talk to their mother again tonight. We have lunch together so it’s not like i won’t be able to find time. Thanks Himes.
Cool, tell me how that works out. Also what about me makes me a favorite. I just want it in writing for my self esteem
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STEEL BALL RUN!
REACHING THE LINE DONT YOU TURN BACK NOW!
WE’RE GOING WEST TO EAST TO FIND THE STEEL BALL RUN!
im struggling between what i want/need from people and what they can actually provide
*Summons chair and fancy therapist glasses* Sit down and elaborate
*half melts into a puddle of flop* My partner (we’ll call them x) told me they were going to tell their mother about us. Except x said this several weeks ago and keeps telling me they’ll do it this weekend, but there have been several ‘this weekends’ and i just really wish x had never said they were going to tell their parents because it hurts every time i ask if x has told their parents and their answer is …no im planning on doing it tonight. I really want this to be an official relationship that we can be open about and go on dates and formal things and whatnot but I’m not sure if x is actually capable of doing that.
also I think my expectations are just too high in general because i expect others to do for me what i would for them (which is probably more than is healthy)
Have you tried just being straight with them? This may sound incredibly cliche and kinda cheesy, but communication is the key to any good relationship. Tell them what you expect of them as a partner. Maybe your expectations are too high. Then you can lower them to a more realistic level. If X keeps saying that they’re going to do y and z, but they keep delaying it, tell X how that makes you feel. Maybe they don’t realize that they’re hurting you. But in order to do all that, you have to say something
Or don’t, idk, I hate people too much to get in a relationship, so do with that what you will
Lmao this is why you’re one of my favorite people on here
i should. I will if they don’t talk to their mother again tonight. We have lunch together so it’s not like i won’t be able to find time. Thanks Himes.
Cool, tell me how that works out. Also what about me makes me a favorite. I just want it in writing for my self esteem
You’re (sometimes brutally) honest and don’t take any of my bull(gp) XD also you’re such a nerd and I like hearing about your ideas and whatnot
i’d write a full paragraph but im just trying to not do anything stupid right now
im struggling between what i want/need from people and what they can actually provide
*Summons chair and fancy therapist glasses* Sit down and elaborate
*half melts into a puddle of flop* My partner (we’ll call them x) told me they were going to tell their mother about us. Except x said this several weeks ago and keeps telling me they’ll do it this weekend, but there have been several ‘this weekends’ and i just really wish x had never said they were going to tell their parents because it hurts every time i ask if x has told their parents and their answer is …no im planning on doing it tonight. I really want this to be an official relationship that we can be open about and go on dates and formal things and whatnot but I’m not sure if x is actually capable of doing that.
also I think my expectations are just too high in general because i expect others to do for me what i would for them (which is probably more than is healthy)
Have you tried just being straight with them? This may sound incredibly cliche and kinda cheesy, but communication is the key to any good relationship. Tell them what you expect of them as a partner. Maybe your expectations are too high. Then you can lower them to a more realistic level. If X keeps saying that they’re going to do y and z, but they keep delaying it, tell X how that makes you feel. Maybe they don’t realize that they’re hurting you. But in order to do all that, you have to say something
Or don’t, idk, I hate people too much to get in a relationship, so do with that what you will
Lmao this is why you’re one of my favorite people on here
i should. I will if they don’t talk to their mother again tonight. We have lunch together so it’s not like i won’t be able to find time. Thanks Himes.
Cool, tell me how that works out. Also what about me makes me a favorite. I just want it in writing for my self esteem
You’re (sometimes brutally) honest and don’t take any of my bull(gp) XD also you’re such a nerd and I like hearing about your ideas and whatnot
i’d write a full paragraph but im just trying to not do anything stupid right now
<3 love you selia, you’re also awesome
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STEEL BALL RUN!
REACHING THE LINE DONT YOU TURN BACK NOW!
WE’RE GOING WEST TO EAST TO FIND THE STEEL BALL RUN!
”so they have no sorrow. I hold them safe and warm in this cold winter you call death. All alone, afraid, with no memories, they shiver in their graves. How would you like to be left alone, trapped beneath six feet of frozen soil?”
”…But why only the unmarked graves? The old ones?”
”nobody remembers them. Love is like the caress of a summer’s breeze in the cold. The ones people remember, the graves that you visit and leave flowers- they’re all warm inside. The forgotten- they’re cold, and bitter, and angry. I’m offering them a way out.”
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This is TheFriendlyArchfey’s Alternate Account! “I don’t know why Pretty boy is an insult. I’m the prettiest boy in this goddamn town.”
_-One more time, for the Money- Two Time, for the Love- Three time, for the Beauty, these are the things that dreams are made of-_
_-At The First Thanksgiving-__-Official Harbinger of Mariah Carey-__-Secretly Mrs. Claus-_
“I believe the greatest act of rebellion in this world is staying soft.”
im struggling between what i want/need from people and what they can actually provide
*Summons chair and fancy therapist glasses* Sit down and elaborate
*half melts into a puddle of flop* My partner (we’ll call them x) told me they were going to tell their mother about us. Except x said this several weeks ago and keeps telling me they’ll do it this weekend, but there have been several ‘this weekends’ and i just really wish x had never said they were going to tell their parents because it hurts every time i ask if x has told their parents and their answer is …no im planning on doing it tonight. I really want this to be an official relationship that we can be open about and go on dates and formal things and whatnot but I’m not sure if x is actually capable of doing that.
also I think my expectations are just too high in general because i expect others to do for me what i would for them (which is probably more than is healthy)
Have you tried just being straight with them? This may sound incredibly cliche and kinda cheesy, but communication is the key to any good relationship. Tell them what you expect of them as a partner. Maybe your expectations are too high. Then you can lower them to a more realistic level. If X keeps saying that they’re going to do y and z, but they keep delaying it, tell X how that makes you feel. Maybe they don’t realize that they’re hurting you. But in order to do all that, you have to say something
Or don’t, idk, I hate people too much to get in a relationship, so do with that what you will
Lmao this is why you’re one of my favorite people on here
i should. I will if they don’t talk to their mother again tonight. We have lunch together so it’s not like i won’t be able to find time. Thanks Himes.
Cool, tell me how that works out. Also what about me makes me a favorite. I just want it in writing for my self esteem
You’re (sometimes brutally) honest and don’t take any of my bull(gp) XD also you’re such a nerd and I like hearing about your ideas and whatnot
i’d write a full paragraph but im just trying to not do anything stupid right now
I'm Fry, a doodler, writer, aspiring singer/songwriter, and sort-of youtuber (check me out!) goofin' around on the interwebs Soli Deo Gloria(Sed servus eius crustulum vult) I'm a disabled, neurodivergent, dumpster fire, and somewhat of a clown, but I do my best :3 Crafter of Constellations, vocaloid enjoyer, waluigi’s #1 fan, space alien, undead cutie pie, danganer of ronpas, and certified silly goose Internet big sib to aspeninthetrees, TheGatoLover, (and hopefully more)
I'm Fry, a doodler, writer, aspiring singer/songwriter, and sort-of youtuber (check me out!) goofin' around on the interwebs Soli Deo Gloria(Sed servus eius crustulum vult) I'm a disabled, neurodivergent, dumpster fire, and somewhat of a clown, but I do my best :3 Crafter of Constellations, vocaloid enjoyer, waluigi’s #1 fan, space alien, undead cutie pie, danganer of ronpas, and certified silly goose Internet big sib to aspeninthetrees, TheGatoLover, (and hopefully more)
So spend your hours on What you think I've done wrong I know I'm in your mind I've been here way too long I want to spend my life With those who've done me right Your heart is frozen over I'm a four-leaf clover
I’m a decent DM and an above average rules lawyer I have several complete Pokedexes | I may be stupid, but at least I’m not smart! My favorite characters from dead threads; AMA: Aria, Rade, Kiano & Luz, Juniper, Ezra & Dr. Paine, Xi & his siblings, Misa Stay Paranoid!!! My Drummer given title is Swift as the Dragon, but The Diabolical One named me Virex the Whisperbrand, Architect of Echoes May the dice roll ever in your favor
I'm Fry, a doodler, writer, aspiring singer/songwriter, and sort-of youtuber (check me out!) goofin' around on the interwebs Soli Deo Gloria(Sed servus eius crustulum vult) I'm a disabled, neurodivergent, dumpster fire, and somewhat of a clown, but I do my best :3 Crafter of Constellations, vocaloid enjoyer, waluigi’s #1 fan, space alien, undead cutie pie, danganer of ronpas, and certified silly goose Internet big sib to aspeninthetrees, TheGatoLover, (and hopefully more)
I'm Fry, a doodler, writer, aspiring singer/songwriter, and sort-of youtuber (check me out!) goofin' around on the interwebs Soli Deo Gloria(Sed servus eius crustulum vult) I'm a disabled, neurodivergent, dumpster fire, and somewhat of a clown, but I do my best :3 Crafter of Constellations, vocaloid enjoyer, waluigi’s #1 fan, space alien, undead cutie pie, danganer of ronpas, and certified silly goose Internet big sib to aspeninthetrees, TheGatoLover, (and hopefully more)
I'm Fry, a doodler, writer, aspiring singer/songwriter, and sort-of youtuber (check me out!) goofin' around on the interwebs Soli Deo Gloria(Sed servus eius crustulum vult) I'm a disabled, neurodivergent, dumpster fire, and somewhat of a clown, but I do my best :3 Crafter of Constellations, vocaloid enjoyer, waluigi’s #1 fan, space alien, undead cutie pie, danganer of ronpas, and certified silly goose Internet big sib to aspeninthetrees, TheGatoLover, (and hopefully more)
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I think I am being bad at life
im struggling between what i want/need from people and what they can actually provide
Sel
They/he
Reading, dnd, theatre, art (Irunwithskissors)
Tossing and turning
The sun’s in the sky
It’s five am, I can’t close my eyes
*Summons chair and fancy therapist glasses* Sit down and elaborate
STEEL BALL RUN!
REACHING THE LINE DONT YOU TURN BACK NOW!
WE’RE GOING WEST TO EAST TO FIND THE STEEL BALL RUN!
*half melts into a puddle of flop* My partner (we’ll call them x) told me they were going to tell their mother about us. Except x said this several weeks ago and keeps telling me they’ll do it this weekend, but there have been several ‘this weekends’ and i just really wish x had never said they were going to tell their parents because it hurts every time i ask if x has told their parents and their answer is …no im planning on doing it tonight. I really want this to be an official relationship that we can be open about and go on dates and formal things and whatnot but I’m not sure if x is actually capable of doing that.
also I think my expectations are just too high in general because i expect others to do for me what i would for them (which is probably more than is healthy)
Sel
They/he
Reading, dnd, theatre, art (Irunwithskissors)
Tossing and turning
The sun’s in the sky
It’s five am, I can’t close my eyes
https://youtube.com/clip/UgkxSblhoogZxz7Nt1Gk-FigHgvFeJMqiJO9?si=zpypcZdHsbssOXjD
hehehehehehe
I'm Fry, a doodler, writer, aspiring singer/songwriter, and sort-of youtuber (check me out!) goofin' around on the interwebs
Soli Deo Gloria(Sed servus eius crustulum vult)
I'm a disabled, neurodivergent, dumpster fire, and somewhat of a clown, but I do my best :3
Crafter of Constellations, vocaloid enjoyer, waluigi’s #1 fan, space alien, undead cutie pie, danganer of ronpas, and certified silly goose
Internet big sib to aspeninthetrees, TheGatoLover, (and hopefully more)
Have you tried just being straight with them? This may sound incredibly cliche and kinda cheesy, but communication is the key to any good relationship. Tell them what you expect of them as a partner. Maybe your expectations are too high. Then you can lower them to a more realistic level. If X keeps saying that they’re going to do y and z, but they keep delaying it, tell X how that makes you feel. Maybe they don’t realize that they’re hurting you. But in order to do all that, you have to say something
Or don’t, idk, I hate people too much to get in a relationship, so do with that what you will
STEEL BALL RUN!
REACHING THE LINE DONT YOU TURN BACK NOW!
WE’RE GOING WEST TO EAST TO FIND THE STEEL BALL RUN!
Lmao this is why you’re one of my favorite people on here
i should. I will if they don’t talk to their mother again tonight. We have lunch together so it’s not like i won’t be able to find time. Thanks Himes.
Sel
They/he
Reading, dnd, theatre, art (Irunwithskissors)
Tossing and turning
The sun’s in the sky
It’s five am, I can’t close my eyes
Cool, tell me how that works out. Also what about me makes me a favorite. I just want it in writing for my self esteem
STEEL BALL RUN!
REACHING THE LINE DONT YOU TURN BACK NOW!
WE’RE GOING WEST TO EAST TO FIND THE STEEL BALL RUN!
You’re (sometimes brutally) honest and don’t take any of my bull(gp) XD also you’re such a nerd and I like hearing about your ideas and whatnot
i’d write a full paragraph but im just trying to not do anything stupid right now
Sel
They/he
Reading, dnd, theatre, art (Irunwithskissors)
Tossing and turning
The sun’s in the sky
It’s five am, I can’t close my eyes
<3 love you selia, you’re also awesome
STEEL BALL RUN!
REACHING THE LINE DONT YOU TURN BACK NOW!
WE’RE GOING WEST TO EAST TO FIND THE STEEL BALL RUN!
”why do you take their names?”
”so they have no sorrow. I hold them safe and warm in this cold winter you call death. All alone, afraid, with no memories, they shiver in their graves. How would you like to be left alone, trapped beneath six feet of frozen soil?”
”…But why only the unmarked graves? The old ones?”
”nobody remembers them. Love is like the caress of a summer’s breeze in the cold. The ones people remember, the graves that you visit and leave flowers- they’re all warm inside. The forgotten- they’re cold, and bitter, and angry. I’m offering them a way out.”
This is TheFriendlyArchfey’s Alternate Account! “I don’t know why Pretty boy is an insult. I’m the prettiest boy in this goddamn town.”
_-One more time, for the Money- Two Time, for the Love- Three time, for the Beauty, these are the things that dreams are made of-_
_-At The First Thanksgiving-_ _-Official Harbinger of Mariah Carey-_ _-Secretly Mrs. Claus-_
“I believe the greatest act of rebellion in this world is staying soft.”
Love you too, himy.
Sel
They/he
Reading, dnd, theatre, art (Irunwithskissors)
Tossing and turning
The sun’s in the sky
It’s five am, I can’t close my eyes
Currently watching what I personally think is the best 2020 movie
Hallo
People who aren't from here or DeviantArt might know me from various games or might know me as Dino on some of those games
I will go by these if ya wanna say something nicknames: Dinao, Diano, Or Dino
'tis all
:p
I always watch this video when i need to laugh
*don't mark this as spam please i just want to share a funy vido its not even mine*
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aln9y1fE9xE&list=WL
The bystander is great in this one
I'm Fry, a doodler, writer, aspiring singer/songwriter, and sort-of youtuber (check me out!) goofin' around on the interwebs
Soli Deo Gloria(Sed servus eius crustulum vult)
I'm a disabled, neurodivergent, dumpster fire, and somewhat of a clown, but I do my best :3
Crafter of Constellations, vocaloid enjoyer, waluigi’s #1 fan, space alien, undead cutie pie, danganer of ronpas, and certified silly goose
Internet big sib to aspeninthetrees, TheGatoLover, (and hopefully more)
*Busts down door*
KISS KISS FALL IN LOVE
I'm Fry, a doodler, writer, aspiring singer/songwriter, and sort-of youtuber (check me out!) goofin' around on the interwebs
Soli Deo Gloria(Sed servus eius crustulum vult)
I'm a disabled, neurodivergent, dumpster fire, and somewhat of a clown, but I do my best :3
Crafter of Constellations, vocaloid enjoyer, waluigi’s #1 fan, space alien, undead cutie pie, danganer of ronpas, and certified silly goose
Internet big sib to aspeninthetrees, TheGatoLover, (and hopefully more)
*teleports away*
Extended signature
good morning everyone
So spend your hours on
What you think I've done wrong
I know I'm in your mind
I've been here way too long
I want to spend my life
With those who've done me right
Your heart is frozen over
I'm a four-leaf clover
Hey y’all
bored in class again
I’m a decent DM and an above average rules lawyer
I have several complete Pokedexes | I may be stupid, but at least I’m not smart!
My favorite characters from dead threads; AMA: Aria, Rade, Kiano & Luz, Juniper, Ezra & Dr. Paine, Xi & his siblings, Misa Stay Paranoid!!!
My Drummer given title is Swift as the Dragon, but The Diabolical One named me Virex the Whisperbrand, Architect of Echoes
May the dice roll ever in your favor
I'm Fry, a doodler, writer, aspiring singer/songwriter, and sort-of youtuber (check me out!) goofin' around on the interwebs
Soli Deo Gloria(Sed servus eius crustulum vult)
I'm a disabled, neurodivergent, dumpster fire, and somewhat of a clown, but I do my best :3
Crafter of Constellations, vocaloid enjoyer, waluigi’s #1 fan, space alien, undead cutie pie, danganer of ronpas, and certified silly goose
Internet big sib to aspeninthetrees, TheGatoLover, (and hopefully more)
I'm Fry, a doodler, writer, aspiring singer/songwriter, and sort-of youtuber (check me out!) goofin' around on the interwebs
Soli Deo Gloria(Sed servus eius crustulum vult)
I'm a disabled, neurodivergent, dumpster fire, and somewhat of a clown, but I do my best :3
Crafter of Constellations, vocaloid enjoyer, waluigi’s #1 fan, space alien, undead cutie pie, danganer of ronpas, and certified silly goose
Internet big sib to aspeninthetrees, TheGatoLover, (and hopefully more)
I'm Fry, a doodler, writer, aspiring singer/songwriter, and sort-of youtuber (check me out!) goofin' around on the interwebs
Soli Deo Gloria(Sed servus eius crustulum vult)
I'm a disabled, neurodivergent, dumpster fire, and somewhat of a clown, but I do my best :3
Crafter of Constellations, vocaloid enjoyer, waluigi’s #1 fan, space alien, undead cutie pie, danganer of ronpas, and certified silly goose
Internet big sib to aspeninthetrees, TheGatoLover, (and hopefully more)