Gato, you should bring up your discomfort and feelings with your family.
Even if you've done it before, try again. Make the severity clear.
I did actually
Yesterday night, I told her about, like, maybe a quarter of the things that I could tell her
Tell her about everything. Make her listen. Even if it's uncomfortable, it's important to let her know.
You're her child. She's obligated to care.
And i cant tell her
because she still thinks that im her perfect child, and i have no problems
What, you think you'll disappoint her?
You think she won't love you anymore?
Bull.
You are important. You are a living person and you deserve to be treated like one. You deserve to feel that one.
Get out of your own way and fix the issue.
I also was stupid and made the stupid secrets the main part of my identity, which means that I feel like if i tell her them. We won't ever have another deep conversation
Then that’s on her. If she can’t accept you for who you are, then she’s a crappy parent, you deserve better and she needs to grow up
I think it might also be playing on my fear of adults not knowing what i mean when I refer to things
Humans came up with this cool thing called language so we could explain things to each other. If they misunderstand you, tell them and clarify what you meant
i also, too, make this all the more confusing
I got baptized on Sunday, and before that, I decided that I am an atheist. HOW DO YOU WANT ME TO TELL ME MOTHER THAT?
Tell her that she shouldn't be able to tell you what to believe in, and that just because she believes in something, doesn't mean you need to do the same. She is your mother. She will love you. You just need to explain to her what's going on. It may be hard, but in the end, being open with her will feel better than keeping these secrets.
But i dont know...
ive been the person that was perfect in my family, until four months ago
so. much... has... chaanged...
HEre's the thing
You don't need to be perfect
You can't be perfect
Your family shouldn't want you to be perfect
They want you to be you
Has your mother ever said that she needed you to be perfect
Has anyone ever said that you need to be perfect
IF they have, they are wrong
You shouldn't have to be perfect
Because you can't be perfect
Nobody can be perfect
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I got baptized on Sunday, and before that, I decided that I am an atheist. HOW DO YOU WANT ME TO TELL ME MOTHER THAT?
I'm not going to say much here or try to convince you of anything since I don't know your situation at all really and there's a screen between us. Your relationship with your mother will be one of the most important relationships in your life. You should be as open and truthful with her as possible. Speak to her honestly and give her the grace you want her to show you. Don't tell her you are a christian if you aren't. Lies kill a relationship and they kill you.
I got baptized on Sunday, and before that, I decided that I am an atheist. HOW DO YOU WANT ME TO TELL ME MOTHER THAT?
I'm not going to say much here or try to convince you of anything since I don't know your situation at all really and there's a screen between us. Your relationship with your mother will be one of the most important relationships in your life. You should be as open and truthful with her as possible. Speak to her honestly and give her the grace you want her to show you. Don't tell her you are a christian if you aren't. Lies kill a relationship and they kill you.
I have to, I decided that i was an atheist the day before I was baptisted
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I got baptized on Sunday, and before that, I decided that I am an atheist. HOW DO YOU WANT ME TO TELL ME MOTHER THAT?
I'm not going to say much here or try to convince you of anything since I don't know your situation at all really and there's a screen between us. Your relationship with your mother will be one of the most important relationships in your life. You should be as open and truthful with her as possible. Speak to her honestly and give her the grace you want her to show you. Don't tell her you are a christian if you aren't. Lies kill a relationship and they kill you.
I have to, I decided that i was an atheist the day before I was baptisted
Lies kill relationships and they kill you. Don't pretend to be something you're not, that's living a lie. I'm not going to argue with you to do the right thing. You've been given about as good advice as anyone can give through this setting by several people. If you actually want help then listen to it. Bye, I hope things go well.
I got baptized on Sunday, and before that, I decided that I am an atheist. HOW DO YOU WANT ME TO TELL ME MOTHER THAT?
I'm not going to say much here or try to convince you of anything since I don't know your situation at all really and there's a screen between us. Your relationship with your mother will be one of the most important relationships in your life. You should be as open and truthful with her as possible. Speak to her honestly and give her the grace you want her to show you. Don't tell her you are a christian if you aren't. Lies kill a relationship and they kill you.
I have to, I decided that i was an atheist the day before I was baptisted
Lies kill relationships and they kill you. Don't pretend to be something you're not, that's living a lie. I'm not going to argue with you to do the right thing. You've been given about as good advice as anyone can give through this setting by several people. If you actually want help then listen to it. Bye, I hope things go well.
Oh sh*t, I just relized that i was being stupid, sorry
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Hello! Call meTana. My pronouns are She/Her. I am a teenager. I have Autism and ADHD. And, you would probably call me trans femme, Pansexual pancake, and ace I will mother you if you are being stupid. ALL HAIL MERLIN! [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] = [roll][roll:-6]+[roll:-5]+[roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll] I have adopted Golden, Salem, Wes, Aspen, and Foalin.
Hello! Call meTana. My pronouns are She/Her. I am a teenager. I have Autism and ADHD. And, you would probably call me trans femme, Pansexual pancake, and ace I will mother you if you are being stupid. ALL HAIL MERLIN! [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] = [roll][roll:-6]+[roll:-5]+[roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll] I have adopted Golden, Salem, Wes, Aspen, and Foalin.
Hello! Call meTana. My pronouns are She/Her. I am a teenager. I have Autism and ADHD. And, you would probably call me trans femme, Pansexual pancake, and ace I will mother you if you are being stupid. ALL HAIL MERLIN! [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] = [roll][roll:-6]+[roll:-5]+[roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll] I have adopted Golden, Salem, Wes, Aspen, and Foalin.
So tell them! They shouldn't care what you believe. Yes, christianity (and catholocism and all those different bracnhes I didn't remeber much from my required Christianity classes) tells you to go and convert other people to christianity, but more importantly, christianity tells you to be kind, adn to love others. They won't hate you.
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Hi, christian here. If you use being a christian as an excuse to hurt others or make others feel bad (cough republica-cough cough) you are not a good Christian
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Hi, christian here. If you use being a christian as an excuse to hurt others or make others feel bad (cough republica-cough cough) you are not a good Christian
I just went to Stew Leonard’s today without knowing it existed until this morning
its weird…
There’s a section with a big “FRESH TURKEY” sign, turkey meat under it, and above it there’s animatronic turkeys above the sign singing Old Macdonald had a Farm
I just went to Stew Leonard’s today without knowing it existed until this morning
its weird…
There’s a section with a big “FRESH TURKEY” sign, turkey meat under it, and above it there’s animatronic turkeys above the sign singing Old Macdonald had a Farm
wat
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HEre's the thing
You don't need to be perfect
You can't be perfect
Your family shouldn't want you to be perfect
They want you to be you
Has your mother ever said that she needed you to be perfect
Has anyone ever said that you need to be perfect
IF they have, they are wrong
You shouldn't have to be perfect
Because you can't be perfect
Nobody can be perfect
The clocks run out, too late to wake up.
You're locked under this nightmare's thumb.
Begging you hide and run.
W H A T H A V E I B E C O M E ?
I'm not going to say much here or try to convince you of anything since I don't know your situation at all really and there's a screen between us. Your relationship with your mother will be one of the most important relationships in your life. You should be as open and truthful with her as possible. Speak to her honestly and give her the grace you want her to show you. Don't tell her you are a christian if you aren't. Lies kill a relationship and they kill you.
*dances as an atheist maybe satanist with a christian mother who loves me :3*
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*Dances as an atheist who was (kinda) accidentally sent to a Catholic school for my entire lower and middle school experience*
The clocks run out, too late to wake up.
You're locked under this nightmare's thumb.
Begging you hide and run.
W H A T H A V E I B E C O M E ?
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I have to, I decided that i was an atheist the day before I was baptisted
Hello! Call me Tana.
My pronouns are She/Her.
I am a teenager. I have Autism and ADHD. And, you would probably call me trans femme, Pansexual pancake, and ace
I will mother you if you are being stupid.
ALL HAIL MERLIN! [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] = [roll][roll:-6]+[roll:-5]+[roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll]
I have adopted Golden, Salem, Wes, Aspen, and Foalin.
Ya know what we mean. If your mom isn't willing to accept you, she's not a very good mom.
Your local friendly stupid doop!
Professional idiot! Trans! Pansexual pancake! I am a minor so you will do none of that (GP) with me! I use He/They pronouns :3
Extended Signature!
Waow! Congratulations!
Your local friendly stupid doop!
Professional idiot! Trans! Pansexual pancake! I am a minor so you will do none of that (GP) with me! I use He/They pronouns :3
Extended Signature!
Lies kill relationships and they kill you. Don't pretend to be something you're not, that's living a lie. I'm not going to argue with you to do the right thing. You've been given about as good advice as anyone can give through this setting by several people. If you actually want help then listen to it. Bye, I hope things go well.
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Hallo
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I will go by these if ya wanna say something nicknames: Dinao, Diano, Or Dino
'tis all
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Oh sh*t, I just relized that i was being stupid, sorry
Hello! Call me Tana.
My pronouns are She/Her.
I am a teenager. I have Autism and ADHD. And, you would probably call me trans femme, Pansexual pancake, and ace
I will mother you if you are being stupid.
ALL HAIL MERLIN! [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] = [roll][roll:-6]+[roll:-5]+[roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll]
I have adopted Golden, Salem, Wes, Aspen, and Foalin.
*?*
The clocks run out, too late to wake up.
You're locked under this nightmare's thumb.
Begging you hide and run.
W H A T H A V E I B E C O M E ?
*talking to Gato*
Your local friendly stupid doop!
Professional idiot! Trans! Pansexual pancake! I am a minor so you will do none of that (GP) with me! I use He/They pronouns :3
Extended Signature!
Humh
Hello! Call me Tana.
My pronouns are She/Her.
I am a teenager. I have Autism and ADHD. And, you would probably call me trans femme, Pansexual pancake, and ace
I will mother you if you are being stupid.
ALL HAIL MERLIN! [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] = [roll][roll:-6]+[roll:-5]+[roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll]
I have adopted Golden, Salem, Wes, Aspen, and Foalin.
Okay, one last thing but this makes this worse
i also havent told anybody in my family yet
*Sigh*
Hello! Call me Tana.
My pronouns are She/Her.
I am a teenager. I have Autism and ADHD. And, you would probably call me trans femme, Pansexual pancake, and ace
I will mother you if you are being stupid.
ALL HAIL MERLIN! [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] = [roll][roll:-6]+[roll:-5]+[roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll]
I have adopted Golden, Salem, Wes, Aspen, and Foalin.
So tell them! They shouldn't care what you believe. Yes, christianity (and catholocism and all those different bracnhes I didn't remeber much from my required Christianity classes) tells you to go and convert other people to christianity, but more importantly, christianity tells you to be kind, adn to love others. They won't hate you.
The clocks run out, too late to wake up.
You're locked under this nightmare's thumb.
Begging you hide and run.
W H A T H A V E I B E C O M E ?
Hi, christian here. If you use being a christian as an excuse to hurt others or make others feel bad (cough republica-cough cough) you are not a good Christian
I’m a decent DM and an above average rules lawyer
I have several complete Pokedexes | I may be stupid, but at least I’m not smart!
My favorite characters from dead threads; AMA: Aria, Rade, Kiano & Luz, Juniper, Ezra & Dr. Paine, Xi & his siblings, Misa Stay Paranoid!!!
My Drummer given title is Swift as the Dragon, but The Diabolical One named me Virex the Whisperbrand, Architect of Echoes
May the dice roll ever in your favor
Also a Christian here, I agree with Monks.
Let him who is without sin cast the first stone.
Awake, impure, divine
Breathgiver of the Strugels
I just went to Stew Leonard’s today without knowing it existed until this morning
its weird…
There’s a section with a big “FRESH TURKEY” sign, turkey meat under it, and above it there’s animatronic turkeys above the sign singing Old Macdonald had a Farm
wat
Faster and faster as darkness descends.
You trip and you fall but can't get up again.
This tale has been written with blood staining pen.
You’re here for this page but won’t see how it ends.
My Baalze given title is The Last of All Kings