It seems wrong to criticize people I've literally never met IRL, though.
Pretty easy to gain a sense of personality online.
For example, you’re a people pleaser who hates offending people and feels like they have to be nice to everyone. I have more but that’s all I know for sure. And I can think of tons of criticisms based on that.
Only thing that would be different irl is you know what they look like, and criticizing based on appearance is a dick move.
Yes, a sense of personality is easy. But people have so much more depth than that; for instance, do you know WHY I'm like that? It could be I was born that way; it could be that I was told that's how I should act; it could even be guilt about me doing poor things in the past and so I'm making up for it. Everyone has reasons for what they do; people being jerks isn't okay, period, but just criticizing them feels different if they're just a butthead and if they're lashing out due to their mother dying or something.
And I never judge people based on appearance, just so we're clear.
I think most people don’t understand and underestimate the effects of mob mentality and basing serious decisions purely off of emotion rather than from a more logical and rational perspective.
Just to clarify for my brand new critics, temperance is always to be utilized. For example, it would be a sad world if we didn’t seek out partners because we liked them or not. But chasing after someone purely off of our more animalistic urges doesn’t always lead to positive places.
Taking into account things like compatibility is very rational. “I like you enough the think about how well we could do together,” is very mature and respectable in my opinion.
So your going deny my right's to be aromantic? beacuse thats what im seeing
What? Is this like a joke or something? I’m being serious, because I don’t understand how that could be targeting anyone in particular.
Regardless of whatever your sexual orientation is, I think thoughtfully thinking about who you want to be with is rational and emotional. It would require you to have an emotional investment in said person and have the maturity to determine if a relationship with said person would be toxic/unhealthy or productive/supportive.
For example, I have low self-esteem. So it is a tendency of mine to think that almost everyone is out of my league. Is that true? Probably, probably not. Is it rational? Maybe, maybe not. But is it miserable? Yes.
So, would it be better to lean into my emotional side of self deprecation and be sad and lonely forever, or would it be better to stop the pity parties and learn to love myself so I can better appreciate and love the people around me? (This is rhetorical, by the way).
What? may I ask, do you know what Aromantic means?
Yes, actually. Can you explain how what I wrote is anti-aromantic?
GUYS.
STOP.
I apologize if my tone seems antagonistic. I am genuinely curious as to how I could have meant any harm to a group of people I wasn’t trying to target in anyway. If that seems ironic or sarcastic, it isn’t. I want to learn and improve in any way I can.
I think most people don’t understand and underestimate the effects of mob mentality and basing serious decisions purely off of emotion rather than from a more logical and rational perspective.
Just to clarify for my brand new critics, temperance is always to be utilized. For example, it would be a sad world if we didn’t seek out partners because we liked them or not. But chasing after someone purely off of our more animalistic urges doesn’t always lead to positive places.
Taking into account things like compatibility is very rational. “I like you enough the think about how well we could do together,” is very mature and respectable in my opinion.
So your going deny my right's to be aromantic? beacuse thats what im seeing
What? Is this like a joke or something? I’m being serious, because I don’t understand how that could be targeting anyone in particular.
Regardless of whatever your sexual orientation is, I think thoughtfully thinking about who you want to be with is rational and emotional. It would require you to have an emotional investment in said person and have the maturity to determine if a relationship with said person would be toxic/unhealthy or productive/supportive.
For example, I have low self-esteem. So it is a tendency of mine to think that almost everyone is out of my league. Is that true? Probably, probably not. Is it rational? Maybe, maybe not. But is it miserable? Yes.
So, would it be better to lean into my emotional side of self deprecation and be sad and lonely forever, or would it be better to stop the pity parties and learn to love myself so I can better appreciate and love the people around me? (This is rhetorical, by the way).
What? may I ask, do you know what Aromantic means?
Yes, actually. Can you explain how what I wrote is anti-aromantic?
You said that I should try to find a partner despite the fact that I do not feel romantic attraction
I understand that causing me pain was not your intent
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Hello! Call me GAYto or Gato (Cat in Spanish) My pronouns are They/She (Prefers She/her) I am a teenager. I have ADHD, Depression, and anxiety. I'm also Genderfluid, Pansexual, Aromantic, Trans Androgynous, and Asexual, but this community means the world to me; you can't change that about me ALL HAIL O_MERLIN_O. 4D8 ATTEMPT:[roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] = [roll][roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll] I have adopted Golden, Salem, and Aspen
I think most people don’t understand and underestimate the effects of mob mentality and basing serious decisions purely off of emotion rather than from a more logical and rational perspective.
Just to clarify for my brand new critics, temperance is always to be utilized. For example, it would be a sad world if we didn’t seek out partners because we liked them or not. But chasing after someone purely off of our more animalistic urges doesn’t always lead to positive places.
Taking into account things like compatibility is very rational. “I like you enough the think about how well we could do together,” is very mature and respectable in my opinion.
So your going deny my right's to be aromantic? beacuse thats what im seeing
What? Is this like a joke or something? I’m being serious, because I don’t understand how that could be targeting anyone in particular.
Regardless of whatever your sexual orientation is, I think thoughtfully thinking about who you want to be with is rational and emotional. It would require you to have an emotional investment in said person and have the maturity to determine if a relationship with said person would be toxic/unhealthy or productive/supportive.
For example, I have low self-esteem. So it is a tendency of mine to think that almost everyone is out of my league. Is that true? Probably, probably not. Is it rational? Maybe, maybe not. But is it miserable? Yes.
So, would it be better to lean into my emotional side of self deprecation and be sad and lonely forever, or would it be better to stop the pity parties and learn to love myself so I can better appreciate and love the people around me? (This is rhetorical, by the way).
What? may I ask, do you know what Aromantic means?
Yes, actually. Can you explain how what I wrote is anti-aromantic?
GUYS.
STOP.
I apologize if my tone seems antagonistic. I am genuinely curious as to how I could have meant any harm to a group of people I wasn’t trying to target in anyway. If that seems ironic or sarcastic, it isn’t. I want to learn and improve in any way I can.
I think most people don’t understand and underestimate the effects of mob mentality and basing serious decisions purely off of emotion rather than from a more logical and rational perspective.
Just to clarify for my brand new critics, temperance is always to be utilized. For example, it would be a sad world if we didn’t seek out partners because we liked them or not. But chasing after someone purely off of our more animalistic urges doesn’t always lead to positive places.
Taking into account things like compatibility is very rational. “I like you enough the think about how well we could do together,” is very mature and respectable in my opinion.
So your going deny my right's to be aromantic? beacuse thats what im seeing
What? Is this like a joke or something? I’m being serious, because I don’t understand how that could be targeting anyone in particular.
Regardless of whatever your sexual orientation is, I think thoughtfully thinking about who you want to be with is rational and emotional. It would require you to have an emotional investment in said person and have the maturity to determine if a relationship with said person would be toxic/unhealthy or productive/supportive.
For example, I have low self-esteem. So it is a tendency of mine to think that almost everyone is out of my league. Is that true? Probably, probably not. Is it rational? Maybe, maybe not. But is it miserable? Yes.
So, would it be better to lean into my emotional side of self deprecation and be sad and lonely forever, or would it be better to stop the pity parties and learn to love myself so I can better appreciate and love the people around me? (This is rhetorical, by the way).
What? may I ask, do you know what Aromantic means?
Yes, actually. Can you explain how what I wrote is anti-aromantic?
GUYS.
STOP.
I apologize if my tone seems antagonistic. I am genuinely curious as to how I could have meant any harm to a group of people I wasn’t trying to target in anyway. If that seems ironic or sarcastic, it isn’t. I want to learn and improve in any way I can.
I could agree, I am trying to help charles understand my point of veiw, and if I believe this to be anything else, I will leave the conversation
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Hello! Call me GAYto or Gato (Cat in Spanish) My pronouns are They/She (Prefers She/her) I am a teenager. I have ADHD, Depression, and anxiety. I'm also Genderfluid, Pansexual, Aromantic, Trans Androgynous, and Asexual, but this community means the world to me; you can't change that about me ALL HAIL O_MERLIN_O. 4D8 ATTEMPT:[roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] = [roll][roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll] I have adopted Golden, Salem, and Aspen
I don't actually know what trans means. I could Google it, I guess, but that's often misleading.
Trans means that the gender you were assigned at birht no longer is the gender you feel, so I feel mostly like a they/them, but I also can feel like a she/her, and I prefer she/her pronouns
Oh. I've only ever heard gender used as a physical thing; you know, girls can give birth, boys can't. But I'm guessing that's not how you see it?
I think most people don’t understand and underestimate the effects of mob mentality and basing serious decisions purely off of emotion rather than from a more logical and rational perspective.
Just to clarify for my brand new critics, temperance is always to be utilized. For example, it would be a sad world if we didn’t seek out partners because we liked them or not. But chasing after someone purely off of our more animalistic urges doesn’t always lead to positive places.
Taking into account things like compatibility is very rational. “I like you enough the think about how well we could do together,” is very mature and respectable in my opinion.
So your going deny my right's to be aromantic? beacuse thats what im seeing
What? Is this like a joke or something? I’m being serious, because I don’t understand how that could be targeting anyone in particular.
Regardless of whatever your sexual orientation is, I think thoughtfully thinking about who you want to be with is rational and emotional. It would require you to have an emotional investment in said person and have the maturity to determine if a relationship with said person would be toxic/unhealthy or productive/supportive.
For example, I have low self-esteem. So it is a tendency of mine to think that almost everyone is out of my league. Is that true? Probably, probably not. Is it rational? Maybe, maybe not. But is it miserable? Yes.
So, would it be better to lean into my emotional side of self deprecation and be sad and lonely forever, or would it be better to stop the pity parties and learn to love myself so I can better appreciate and love the people around me? (This is rhetorical, by the way).
What? may I ask, do you know what Aromantic means?
Yes, actually. Can you explain how what I wrote is anti-aromantic?
GUYS.
STOP.
I apologize if my tone seems antagonistic. I am genuinely curious as to how I could have meant any harm to a group of people I wasn’t trying to target in anyway. If that seems ironic or sarcastic, it isn’t. I want to learn and improve in any way I can.
I'm not going to explain to either of you --- I'm simply trying to keep this from getting worse. I didn't mean anything towards either of you, I just am recognizing the need for someone to step in here.
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It seems wrong to criticize people I've literally never met IRL, though.
so you'd rather let an online problem fester instead of addressing it?
I'd rather avoid there being a problem. And how is me criticizing someone going to fix anything?
If you tell someone you think they're doing smth wrong, chances are they will apologize and try to fix it. Just need to be careful to not turn that criticism into an attack.
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Hold up a second. Gato, your sig used to say you were a teenage boy.
Now it says you prefer to be called she/her, A.K.A a girl, and just says 'teenager'.
Did I miss something?
Gato is trans. She only just changed her sig.
I don't actually know what trans means. I could Google it, I guess, but that's often misleading.
Trans means that the gender you were assigned at birht no longer is the gender you feel, so I feel mostly like a they/them, but I also can feel like a she/her, and I prefer she/her pronouns
Golden, did you see this?
Just want to make sure you understand
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Hello! Call me GAYto or Gato (Cat in Spanish) My pronouns are They/She (Prefers She/her) I am a teenager. I have ADHD, Depression, and anxiety. I'm also Genderfluid, Pansexual, Aromantic, Trans Androgynous, and Asexual, but this community means the world to me; you can't change that about me ALL HAIL O_MERLIN_O. 4D8 ATTEMPT:[roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] = [roll][roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll] I have adopted Golden, Salem, and Aspen
It seems wrong to criticize people I've literally never met IRL, though.
Pretty easy to gain a sense of personality online.
For example, you’re a people pleaser who hates offending people and feels like they have to be nice to everyone. I have more but that’s all I know for sure. And I can think of tons of criticisms based on that.
Only thing that would be different irl is you know what they look like, and criticizing based on appearance is a dick move.
Yes, a sense of personality is easy. But people have so much more depth than that; for instance, do you know WHY I'm like that? It could be I was born that way; it could be that I was told that's how I should act; it could even be guilt about me doing poor things in the past and so I'm making up for it. Everyone has reasons for what they do; people being jerks isn't okay, period, but just criticizing them feels different if they're just a butthead and if they're lashing out due to their mother dying or something.
And I never judge people based on appearance, just so we're clear.
But you can learn that online too. And in person, people can lie. Feels like you’re saying we shouldn’t criticize in the first place, and sometimes constructive criticism is helpful.
I think most people don’t understand and underestimate the effects of mob mentality and basing serious decisions purely off of emotion rather than from a more logical and rational perspective.
Just to clarify for my brand new critics, temperance is always to be utilized. For example, it would be a sad world if we didn’t seek out partners because we liked them or not. But chasing after someone purely off of our more animalistic urges doesn’t always lead to positive places.
Taking into account things like compatibility is very rational. “I like you enough the think about how well we could do together,” is very mature and respectable in my opinion.
So your going deny my right's to be aromantic? beacuse thats what im seeing
What? Is this like a joke or something? I’m being serious, because I don’t understand how that could be targeting anyone in particular.
Regardless of whatever your sexual orientation is, I think thoughtfully thinking about who you want to be with is rational and emotional. It would require you to have an emotional investment in said person and have the maturity to determine if a relationship with said person would be toxic/unhealthy or productive/supportive.
For example, I have low self-esteem. So it is a tendency of mine to think that almost everyone is out of my league. Is that true? Probably, probably not. Is it rational? Maybe, maybe not. But is it miserable? Yes.
So, would it be better to lean into my emotional side of self deprecation and be sad and lonely forever, or would it be better to stop the pity parties and learn to love myself so I can better appreciate and love the people around me? (This is rhetorical, by the way).
What? may I ask, do you know what Aromantic means?
Yes, actually. Can you explain how what I wrote is anti-aromantic?
GUYS.
STOP.
I apologize if my tone seems antagonistic. I am genuinely curious as to how I could have meant any harm to a group of people I wasn’t trying to target in anyway. If that seems ironic or sarcastic, it isn’t. I want to learn and improve in any way I can.
WAIT WAIT WAIT CYNO SAID YOU SOUND LIKE AN OLD TAVERNER HE KNEW
I do think that it's true that people underestimate the seriousness of their decisions and follow their instinct, as that's what the mob mentality leads to.
At the same time, you're saying this as if instinct and anti-individualistic behavior isn't useful. It helps us work together, communicate better, and create more as a society. It is true that it might take away a bit of how unique we are, but we have always accomplished more when we're all thinking similarly. To think inside the box means that you can expand its dimensions.
Secondly: I'm wondering why this is a Zarathustra-like view. This sets you looking down upon the masses of duplicates, claiming that you are to give them the Superman.
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It seems wrong to criticize people I've literally never met IRL, though.
Pretty easy to gain a sense of personality online.
For example, you’re a people pleaser who hates offending people and feels like they have to be nice to everyone. I have more but that’s all I know for sure. And I can think of tons of criticisms based on that.
Only thing that would be different irl is you know what they look like, and criticizing based on appearance is a dick move.
Yes, a sense of personality is easy. But people have so much more depth than that; for instance, do you know WHY I'm like that? It could be I was born that way; it could be that I was told that's how I should act; it could even be guilt about me doing poor things in the past and so I'm making up for it. Everyone has reasons for what they do; people being jerks isn't okay, period, but just criticizing them feels different if they're just a butthead and if they're lashing out due to their mother dying or something.
And I never judge people based on appearance, just so we're clear.
But you can learn that online too. And in person, people can lie. Feels like you’re saying we shouldn’t criticize in the first place, and sometimes constructive criticism is helpful.
I could agree,
you learn this skill very well after asking for help with writing
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Hello! Call me GAYto or Gato (Cat in Spanish) My pronouns are They/She (Prefers She/her) I am a teenager. I have ADHD, Depression, and anxiety. I'm also Genderfluid, Pansexual, Aromantic, Trans Androgynous, and Asexual, but this community means the world to me; you can't change that about me ALL HAIL O_MERLIN_O. 4D8 ATTEMPT:[roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] = [roll][roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll] I have adopted Golden, Salem, and Aspen
I apologize if my tone seems antagonistic. I am genuinely curious as to how I could have meant any harm to a group of people I wasn’t trying to target in anyway. If that seems ironic or sarcastic, it isn’t. I want to learn and improve in any way I can.
I think most people don’t understand and underestimate the effects of mob mentality and basing serious decisions purely off of emotion rather than from a more logical and rational perspective.
Just to clarify for my brand new critics, temperance is always to be utilized. For example, it would be a sad world if we didn’t seek out partners because we liked them or not. But chasing after someone purely off of our more animalistic urges doesn’t always lead to positive places.
Taking into account things like compatibility is very rational. “I like you enough the think about how well we could do together,” is very mature and respectable in my opinion.
So your going deny my right's to be aromantic? beacuse thats what im seeing
What? Is this like a joke or something? I’m being serious, because I don’t understand how that could be targeting anyone in particular.
Regardless of whatever your sexual orientation is, I think thoughtfully thinking about who you want to be with is rational and emotional. It would require you to have an emotional investment in said person and have the maturity to determine if a relationship with said person would be toxic/unhealthy or productive/supportive.
For example, I have low self-esteem. So it is a tendency of mine to think that almost everyone is out of my league. Is that true? Probably, probably not. Is it rational? Maybe, maybe not. But is it miserable? Yes.
So, would it be better to lean into my emotional side of self deprecation and be sad and lonely forever, or would it be better to stop the pity parties and learn to love myself so I can better appreciate and love the people around me? (This is rhetorical, by the way).
What? may I ask, do you know what Aromantic means?
Yes, actually. Can you explain how what I wrote is anti-aromantic?
GUYS.
STOP.
I apologize if my tone seems antagonistic. I am genuinely curious as to how I could have meant any harm to a group of people I wasn’t trying to target in anyway. If that seems ironic or sarcastic, it isn’t. I want to learn and improve in any way I can.
WAIT WAIT WAIT CYNO SAID YOU SOUND LIKE AN OLD TAVERNER HE KNEW
Wait, what did Cyno say? And...why are we bringing up Cyno?
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I think most people don’t understand and underestimate the effects of mob mentality and basing serious decisions purely off of emotion rather than from a more logical and rational perspective.
Just to clarify for my brand new critics, temperance is always to be utilized. For example, it would be a sad world if we didn’t seek out partners because we liked them or not. But chasing after someone purely off of our more animalistic urges doesn’t always lead to positive places.
Taking into account things like compatibility is very rational. “I like you enough the think about how well we could do together,” is very mature and respectable in my opinion.
So your going deny my right's to be aromantic? beacuse thats what im seeing
What? Is this like a joke or something? I’m being serious, because I don’t understand how that could be targeting anyone in particular.
Regardless of whatever your sexual orientation is, I think thoughtfully thinking about who you want to be with is rational and emotional. It would require you to have an emotional investment in said person and have the maturity to determine if a relationship with said person would be toxic/unhealthy or productive/supportive.
For example, I have low self-esteem. So it is a tendency of mine to think that almost everyone is out of my league. Is that true? Probably, probably not. Is it rational? Maybe, maybe not. But is it miserable? Yes.
So, would it be better to lean into my emotional side of self deprecation and be sad and lonely forever, or would it be better to stop the pity parties and learn to love myself so I can better appreciate and love the people around me? (This is rhetorical, by the way).
What? may I ask, do you know what Aromantic means?
Yes, actually. Can you explain how what I wrote is anti-aromantic?
GUYS.
STOP.
I apologize if my tone seems antagonistic. I am genuinely curious as to how I could have meant any harm to a group of people I wasn’t trying to target in anyway. If that seems ironic or sarcastic, it isn’t. I want to learn and improve in any way I can.
I'm not going to explain to either of you --- I'm simply trying to keep this from getting worse. I didn't mean anything towards either of you, I just am recognizing the need for someone to step in here.
I have sent a report to notify the mods that a fight may break out here.
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I don't actually know what trans means. I could Google it, I guess, but that's often misleading.
Trans means that the gender you were assigned at birht no longer is the gender you feel, so I feel mostly like a they/them, but I also can feel like a she/her, and I prefer she/her pronouns
Oh. I've only ever heard gender used as a physical thing; you know, girls can give birth, boys can't. But I'm guessing that's not how you see it?
I sort of believe that in recent years, the definition of gender has changed
I believe it has changed to the gender you most feel,
Biologically I am male, I know that, I don't feel male, evey
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Hello! Call me GAYto or Gato (Cat in Spanish) My pronouns are They/She (Prefers She/her) I am a teenager. I have ADHD, Depression, and anxiety. I'm also Genderfluid, Pansexual, Aromantic, Trans Androgynous, and Asexual, but this community means the world to me; you can't change that about me ALL HAIL O_MERLIN_O. 4D8 ATTEMPT:[roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] = [roll][roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll] I have adopted Golden, Salem, and Aspen
I think most people don’t understand and underestimate the effects of mob mentality and basing serious decisions purely off of emotion rather than from a more logical and rational perspective.
Just to clarify for my brand new critics, temperance is always to be utilized. For example, it would be a sad world if we didn’t seek out partners because we liked them or not. But chasing after someone purely off of our more animalistic urges doesn’t always lead to positive places.
Taking into account things like compatibility is very rational. “I like you enough the think about how well we could do together,” is very mature and respectable in my opinion.
So your going deny my right's to be aromantic? beacuse thats what im seeing
What? Is this like a joke or something? I’m being serious, because I don’t understand how that could be targeting anyone in particular.
Regardless of whatever your sexual orientation is, I think thoughtfully thinking about who you want to be with is rational and emotional. It would require you to have an emotional investment in said person and have the maturity to determine if a relationship with said person would be toxic/unhealthy or productive/supportive.
For example, I have low self-esteem. So it is a tendency of mine to think that almost everyone is out of my league. Is that true? Probably, probably not. Is it rational? Maybe, maybe not. But is it miserable? Yes.
So, would it be better to lean into my emotional side of self deprecation and be sad and lonely forever, or would it be better to stop the pity parties and learn to love myself so I can better appreciate and love the people around me? (This is rhetorical, by the way).
What? may I ask, do you know what Aromantic means?
Yes, actually. Can you explain how what I wrote is anti-aromantic?
GUYS.
STOP.
I apologize if my tone seems antagonistic. I am genuinely curious as to how I could have meant any harm to a group of people I wasn’t trying to target in anyway. If that seems ironic or sarcastic, it isn’t. I want to learn and improve in any way I can.
WAIT WAIT WAIT CYNO SAID YOU SOUND LIKE AN OLD TAVERNER HE KNEW
Wait, what did Cyno say? And...why are we bringing up Cyno?
Because Cyno saw this conversation and said he knew and old taverner named VTL who’s discord username was the same as this guys and they talked the exact same way.
Bruhhhhhh bringing up Cyno isn’t bad, am I not allowed to mention my friend?
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More like 4 or 5
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Yes, a sense of personality is easy. But people have so much more depth than that; for instance, do you know WHY I'm like that? It could be I was born that way; it could be that I was told that's how I should act; it could even be guilt about me doing poor things in the past and so I'm making up for it. Everyone has reasons for what they do; people being jerks isn't okay, period, but just criticizing them feels different if they're just a butthead and if they're lashing out due to their mother dying or something.
And I never judge people based on appearance, just so we're clear.
My head's underwater
but I'm breathing fine
You're crazy
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I apologize if my tone seems antagonistic. I am genuinely curious as to how I could have meant any harm to a group of people I wasn’t trying to target in anyway. If that seems ironic or sarcastic, it isn’t. I want to learn and improve in any way I can.
You said that I should try to find a partner despite the fact that I do not feel romantic attraction
I understand that causing me pain was not your intent
Hello! Call me GAYto or Gato (Cat in Spanish)
My pronouns are They/She (Prefers She/her)
I am a teenager. I have ADHD, Depression, and anxiety. I'm also Genderfluid, Pansexual, Aromantic, Trans Androgynous, and Asexual,
but this community means the world to me; you can't change that about me
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I have adopted Golden, Salem, and Aspen
You are doing no harm. In my opinion.
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I don’t have 50 alts
More like 4 or 5
I could agree, I am trying to help charles understand my point of veiw, and if I believe this to be anything else, I will leave the conversation
Hello! Call me GAYto or Gato (Cat in Spanish)
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I am a teenager. I have ADHD, Depression, and anxiety. I'm also Genderfluid, Pansexual, Aromantic, Trans Androgynous, and Asexual,
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Oh. I've only ever heard gender used as a physical thing; you know, girls can give birth, boys can't. But I'm guessing that's not how you see it?
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but I'm breathing fine
You're crazy
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I'm not going to explain to either of you --- I'm simply trying to keep this from getting worse. I didn't mean anything towards either of you, I just am recognizing the need for someone to step in here.
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NEVER MIND! I FRICKING DID IT! SCREW YOU, YE MOTH!
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If you tell someone you think they're doing smth wrong, chances are they will apologize and try to fix it. Just need to be careful to not turn that criticism into an attack.
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Golden, did you see this?
Just want to make sure you understand
Hello! Call me GAYto or Gato (Cat in Spanish)
My pronouns are They/She (Prefers She/her)
I am a teenager. I have ADHD, Depression, and anxiety. I'm also Genderfluid, Pansexual, Aromantic, Trans Androgynous, and Asexual,
but this community means the world to me; you can't change that about me
ALL HAIL O_MERLIN_O. 4D8 ATTEMPT:[roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] = [roll][roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll]
I have adopted Golden, Salem, and Aspen
But you can learn that online too. And in person, people can lie. Feels like you’re saying we shouldn’t criticize in the first place, and sometimes constructive criticism is helpful.
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I don’t have 50 alts
More like 4 or 5
WAIT WAIT WAIT CYNO SAID YOU SOUND LIKE AN OLD TAVERNER HE KNEW
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I don’t have 50 alts
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And --- Charles, on your other hot take:
I do think that it's true that people underestimate the seriousness of their decisions and follow their instinct, as that's what the mob mentality leads to.
At the same time, you're saying this as if instinct and anti-individualistic behavior isn't useful. It helps us work together, communicate better, and create more as a society. It is true that it might take away a bit of how unique we are, but we have always accomplished more when we're all thinking similarly. To think inside the box means that you can expand its dimensions.
Secondly: I'm wondering why this is a Zarathustra-like view. This sets you looking down upon the masses of duplicates, claiming that you are to give them the Superman.
wes (he/him, bi) — DM, romantic, a little bit eldritch
The Soft in the Storm, your Friendly Neighborhood Storysmith, The Fae Conspirator
do antarcticans live upside down?
you all are the best people I know — thank you
coming forth to rebehold the stars
extended sig here, check it out!
I could agree,
you learn this skill very well after asking for help with writing
Hello! Call me GAYto or Gato (Cat in Spanish)
My pronouns are They/She (Prefers She/her)
I am a teenager. I have ADHD, Depression, and anxiety. I'm also Genderfluid, Pansexual, Aromantic, Trans Androgynous, and Asexual,
but this community means the world to me; you can't change that about me
ALL HAIL O_MERLIN_O. 4D8 ATTEMPT:[roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] = [roll][roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll]
I have adopted Golden, Salem, and Aspen
...to be honest, you sound like me.
My head's underwater
but I'm breathing fine
You're crazy
And I'm out of my mind
Extended Signature: (^v^)
Wait, what did Cyno say? And...why are we bringing up Cyno?
wes (he/him, bi) — DM, romantic, a little bit eldritch
The Soft in the Storm, your Friendly Neighborhood Storysmith, The Fae Conspirator
do antarcticans live upside down?
you all are the best people I know — thank you
coming forth to rebehold the stars
extended sig here, check it out!
I have sent a report to notify the mods that a fight may break out here.
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I sort of believe that in recent years, the definition of gender has changed
I believe it has changed to the gender you most feel,
Biologically I am male, I know that, I don't feel male, evey
Hello! Call me GAYto or Gato (Cat in Spanish)
My pronouns are They/She (Prefers She/her)
I am a teenager. I have ADHD, Depression, and anxiety. I'm also Genderfluid, Pansexual, Aromantic, Trans Androgynous, and Asexual,
but this community means the world to me; you can't change that about me
ALL HAIL O_MERLIN_O. 4D8 ATTEMPT:[roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] = [roll][roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll]
I have adopted Golden, Salem, and Aspen
Because Cyno saw this conversation and said he knew and old taverner named VTL who’s discord username was the same as this guys and they talked the exact same way.
Bruhhhhhh bringing up Cyno isn’t bad, am I not allowed to mention my friend?
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I don’t have 50 alts
More like 4 or 5