And — I’ll depart with this. I can barely talk one-on-one. Even here, I regularly rewrite my posts several dozen times. How do I just…talk to people? Just let go, stop worrying about what they’ll think?
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The Soft in the Storm, your Friendly Neighborhood Storysmith, The Fae Conspirator two wrenns flap tenderly underneath the skies, eyes lying of their pursuit of the prize but when all cards are thrown down and evils surmise,
Hey, if nothing else, at least you know how you feel.
That's a start. And here's some simple advice: if they don't like you back? Not worth your time. Lots of people out there, if one doesn't like you you can find someone else.
Trust me, I know what this is like. Or... sort of, at least. I did? I dunno how to put it.
Yeah. I get the “I dunno” feeling about the advice I give as well.
What I’m wondering, though, is the following — again, I’m decently sure he likes me. Not 100%, but I do have a gut feeling. But I’m not worried about Step #1 — I’m just not good enough for him if he says yes, or…on a no, I’m not sure what I’d do. Not that I’d be broken up — I am very good at emotional endurance, but more that I’d lose a lot of friends and have to explain a lot to my parents.
I’m gonna start with my parents, I think. Thought about giving them a Christmas “gift” that just lets them know. I just need to feel like I have some support before I keep going with what I want.
Oh, when I said the 'I dunno' I more meant I'm currently in a kind of similar situation. I think I feel that way about someone, but I haven't experienced that emotion towards someone out of my family in YEARS. I'm trying to decide whether to talk to them about it, or feel out my emotions first - get them sorted, you know?
But yeah, do whatever feels right to you; It's your life.
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Maaaaay be guilty of matching my sig up to Foalin's a bit. Maybe.
Hey, if nothing else, at least you know how you feel.
That's a start. And here's some simple advice: if they don't like you back? Not worth your time. Lots of people out there, if one doesn't like you you can find someone else.
Trust me, I know what this is like. Or... sort of, at least. I did? I dunno how to put it.
Yeah. I get the “I dunno” feeling about the advice I give as well.
What I’m wondering, though, is the following — again, I’m decently sure he likes me. Not 100%, but I do have a gut feeling. But I’m not worried about Step #1 — I’m just not good enough for him if he says yes, or…on a no, I’m not sure what I’d do. Not that I’d be broken up — I am very good at emotional endurance, but more that I’d lose a lot of friends and have to explain a lot to my parents.
I’m gonna start with my parents, I think. Thought about giving them a Christmas “gift” that just lets them know. I just need to feel like I have some support before I keep going with what I want.
Oh, when I said the 'I dunno' I more meant I'm currently in a kind of similar situation. I think I feel that way about someone, but I haven't experienced that emotion towards someone out of my family in YEARS. I'm trying to decide whether to talk to them about it, or feel out my emotions first - get them sorted, you know?
But yeah, do whatever feels right to you; It's your life.
Why not go ahead and take a chance? What’s the worst that could happen?
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(_~.~_)
The Soft in the Storm, your Friendly Neighborhood Storysmith, The Fae Conspirator two wrenns flap tenderly underneath the skies, eyes lying of their pursuit of the prize but when all cards are thrown down and evils surmise,
Oh, when I said the 'I dunno' I more meant I'm currently in a kind of similar situation. I think I feel that way about someone, but I haven't experienced that emotion towards someone out of my family in YEARS. I'm trying to decide whether to talk to them about it, or feel out my emotions first - get them sorted, you know?
But yeah, do whatever feels right to you; It's your life.
Why not go ahead and take a chance? What’s the worst that could happen?
Well, um... mainly it's because I don't know for sure - like, what if I tell them, and it turns out I just appreciate how kind they are to me without loving them? That could have... unhappy consequences.
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Maaaaay be guilty of matching my sig up to Foalin's a bit. Maybe.
Oh, when I said the 'I dunno' I more meant I'm currently in a kind of similar situation. I think I feel that way about someone, but I haven't experienced that emotion towards someone out of my family in YEARS. I'm trying to decide whether to talk to them about it, or feel out my emotions first - get them sorted, you know?
But yeah, do whatever feels right to you; It's your life.
Why not go ahead and take a chance? What’s the worst that could happen?
Well, um... mainly it's because I don't know for sure - like, what if I tell them, and it turns out I just appreciate how kind they are to me without loving them? That could have... unhappy consequences.
Then tell them how you feel. Maybe they don’t understand, but it’s better than suffering like that.
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(_~.~_)
The Soft in the Storm, your Friendly Neighborhood Storysmith, The Fae Conspirator two wrenns flap tenderly underneath the skies, eyes lying of their pursuit of the prize but when all cards are thrown down and evils surmise,
Why not go ahead and take a chance? What’s the worst that could happen?
Well, um... mainly it's because I don't know for sure - like, what if I tell them, and it turns out I just appreciate how kind they are to me without loving them? That could have... unhappy consequences.
Then tell them how you feel. Maybe they don’t understand, but it’s better than suffering like that.
Errm... it's not quite suffering.
...any more than normal, at least.
It's more confusing, is all? Not knowing how you feel about people is... not relaxing.
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Maaaaay be guilty of matching my sig up to Foalin's a bit. Maybe.
Why not go ahead and take a chance? What’s the worst that could happen?
Well, um... mainly it's because I don't know for sure - like, what if I tell them, and it turns out I just appreciate how kind they are to me without loving them? That could have... unhappy consequences.
Then tell them how you feel. Maybe they don’t understand, but it’s better than suffering like that.
Errm... it's not quite suffering.
...any more than normal, at least.
It's more confusing, is all? Not knowing how you feel about people is... not relaxing.
Fair. It’s your life as well.
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(_~.~_)
The Soft in the Storm, your Friendly Neighborhood Storysmith, The Fae Conspirator two wrenns flap tenderly underneath the skies, eyes lying of their pursuit of the prize but when all cards are thrown down and evils surmise,
I’m just a queer ahh autistic teen from the Midwest, but I found someone who loves me and who I love even though we both have problems. We both go through moments of self doubt, but we help each other. These are your lives, not mine, but I’d take the chance. It’s well worth it, at least for me
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Hey y’all, you can call me Sel, pronouns they/he. Some things about me, I like reading, writing, dnd, theater, art. I have an art doc and my yt channel linked below. Pms are always open if you need to talk. Love y’all <3
I’m just a queer ahh autistic teen from the Midwest, but I found someone who loves me and who I love even though we both have problems. We both go through moments of self doubt, but we help each other. These are your lives, not mine, but I’d take the chance. It’s well worth it, at least for me
Thanks, Sel.
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(_~.~_)
The Soft in the Storm, your Friendly Neighborhood Storysmith, The Fae Conspirator two wrenns flap tenderly underneath the skies, eyes lying of their pursuit of the prize but when all cards are thrown down and evils surmise,
I’m just a queer ahh autistic teen from the Midwest, but I found someone who loves me and who I love even though we both have problems. We both go through moments of self doubt, but we help each other. These are your lives, not mine, but I’d take the chance. It’s well worth it, at least for me
That's awesome Sel!
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Hello! Call me Tana or Gato My pronouns are They/Them (I don't actually care, though) I am a teenager. I have Autism and anxiety. And, you would probably call me Trans, Aromantic, and Asexual I'm nonbinary, yay! But I will mother you if you are being stupid ALL HAIL MERLIN!!!!!!! [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] = [roll][roll:-6]+[roll:-5]+[roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll] I have adopted Golden, Salem, Wes, and Aspen
I’m just a queer ahh autistic teen from the Midwest, but I found someone who loves me and who I love even though we both have problems. We both go through moments of self doubt, but we help each other. These are your lives, not mine, but I’d take the chance. It’s well worth it, at least for me
Well, the difference is you knew that's how you felt; I might just be thinking my feelings are something other than they are.
But that's good for you! Glad things worked out okay for you.
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Maaaaay be guilty of matching my sig up to Foalin's a bit. Maybe.
Golden, why don't you take some time and vent, so we can help you?
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Hello! Call me Tana or Gato My pronouns are They/Them (I don't actually care, though) I am a teenager. I have Autism and anxiety. And, you would probably call me Trans, Aromantic, and Asexual I'm nonbinary, yay! But I will mother you if you are being stupid ALL HAIL MERLIN!!!!!!! [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] = [roll][roll:-6]+[roll:-5]+[roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll] I have adopted Golden, Salem, Wes, and Aspen
Golden, why don't you take some time and vent, so we can help you?
Hold on I got an idea
Golden check your PMs
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(_~.~_)
The Soft in the Storm, your Friendly Neighborhood Storysmith, The Fae Conspirator two wrenns flap tenderly underneath the skies, eyes lying of their pursuit of the prize but when all cards are thrown down and evils surmise,
Golden, why don't you take some time and vent, so we can help you?
Hold on I got an idea
Golden check your PMs
If we are making a golden venting PM, please add me
I want to help my D&D child
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Hello! Call me Tana or Gato My pronouns are They/Them (I don't actually care, though) I am a teenager. I have Autism and anxiety. And, you would probably call me Trans, Aromantic, and Asexual I'm nonbinary, yay! But I will mother you if you are being stupid ALL HAIL MERLIN!!!!!!! [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] = [roll][roll:-6]+[roll:-5]+[roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll] I have adopted Golden, Salem, Wes, and Aspen
Golden, why don't you take some time and vent, so we can help you?
Hold on I got an idea
Golden check your PMs
If we are making a golden venting PM, please add me
I want to help my D&D child
XD
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(_~.~_)
The Soft in the Storm, your Friendly Neighborhood Storysmith, The Fae Conspirator two wrenns flap tenderly underneath the skies, eyes lying of their pursuit of the prize but when all cards are thrown down and evils surmise,
Golden, why don't you take some time and vent, so we can help you?
Hold on I got an idea
Golden check your PMs
If we are making a golden venting PM, please add me
I want to help my D&D child
XD
I do tho
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Hello! Call me Tana or Gato My pronouns are They/Them (I don't actually care, though) I am a teenager. I have Autism and anxiety. And, you would probably call me Trans, Aromantic, and Asexual I'm nonbinary, yay! But I will mother you if you are being stupid ALL HAIL MERLIN!!!!!!! [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] = [roll][roll:-6]+[roll:-5]+[roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll] I have adopted Golden, Salem, Wes, and Aspen
Golden, why don't you take some time and vent, so we can help you?
Hold on I got an idea
Golden check your PMs
If we are making a golden venting PM, please add me
I want to help my D&D child
XD
I do tho
Yeah
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(_~.~_)
The Soft in the Storm, your Friendly Neighborhood Storysmith, The Fae Conspirator two wrenns flap tenderly underneath the skies, eyes lying of their pursuit of the prize but when all cards are thrown down and evils surmise,
Golden, why don't you take some time and vent, so we can help you?
Hold on I got an idea
Golden check your PMs
If we are making a golden venting PM, please add me
I want to help my D&D child
XD
I do tho
Yeah
WAIT A MOMENT
Oh, this actually explains a few things.
What does?
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Hello! Call me Tana or Gato My pronouns are They/Them (I don't actually care, though) I am a teenager. I have Autism and anxiety. And, you would probably call me Trans, Aromantic, and Asexual I'm nonbinary, yay! But I will mother you if you are being stupid ALL HAIL MERLIN!!!!!!! [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] = [roll][roll:-6]+[roll:-5]+[roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll] I have adopted Golden, Salem, Wes, and Aspen
And — I’ll depart with this. I can barely talk one-on-one. Even here, I regularly rewrite my posts several dozen times. How do I just…talk to people? Just let go, stop worrying about what they’ll think?
(_~.~_)
The Soft in the Storm, your Friendly Neighborhood Storysmith, The Fae Conspirator
two wrenns flap tenderly underneath the skies,
eyes lying of their pursuit of the prize
but when all cards are thrown down and evils surmise,
then comes the time that the weaker must rise
[~.~]
Oh, when I said the 'I dunno' I more meant I'm currently in a kind of similar situation. I think I feel that way about someone, but I haven't experienced that emotion towards someone out of my family in YEARS. I'm trying to decide whether to talk to them about it, or feel out my emotions first - get them sorted, you know?
But yeah, do whatever feels right to you; It's your life.
Maaaaay be guilty of matching my sig up to Foalin's a bit. Maybe.
Here's a link to my Discord thing: The Dorky Dragon Tavern
Hello, all! Foalin is my familiar, after a little conversation...
this is my extended signature(hint, click it): :3
Why not go ahead and take a chance? What’s the worst that could happen?
(_~.~_)
The Soft in the Storm, your Friendly Neighborhood Storysmith, The Fae Conspirator
two wrenns flap tenderly underneath the skies,
eyes lying of their pursuit of the prize
but when all cards are thrown down and evils surmise,
then comes the time that the weaker must rise
[~.~]
Well, um... mainly it's because I don't know for sure - like, what if I tell them, and it turns out I just appreciate how kind they are to me without loving them? That could have... unhappy consequences.
Maaaaay be guilty of matching my sig up to Foalin's a bit. Maybe.
Here's a link to my Discord thing: The Dorky Dragon Tavern
Hello, all! Foalin is my familiar, after a little conversation...
this is my extended signature(hint, click it): :3
Then tell them how you feel. Maybe they don’t understand, but it’s better than suffering like that.
(_~.~_)
The Soft in the Storm, your Friendly Neighborhood Storysmith, The Fae Conspirator
two wrenns flap tenderly underneath the skies,
eyes lying of their pursuit of the prize
but when all cards are thrown down and evils surmise,
then comes the time that the weaker must rise
[~.~]
Errm... it's not quite suffering.
...any more than normal, at least.
It's more confusing, is all? Not knowing how you feel about people is... not relaxing.
Maaaaay be guilty of matching my sig up to Foalin's a bit. Maybe.
Here's a link to my Discord thing: The Dorky Dragon Tavern
Hello, all! Foalin is my familiar, after a little conversation...
this is my extended signature(hint, click it): :3
Fair. It’s your life as well.
(_~.~_)
The Soft in the Storm, your Friendly Neighborhood Storysmith, The Fae Conspirator
two wrenns flap tenderly underneath the skies,
eyes lying of their pursuit of the prize
but when all cards are thrown down and evils surmise,
then comes the time that the weaker must rise
[~.~]
I’m just a queer ahh autistic teen from the Midwest, but I found someone who loves me and who I love even though we both have problems. We both go through moments of self doubt, but we help each other. These are your lives, not mine, but I’d take the chance. It’s well worth it, at least for me
Hey y’all, you can call me Sel, pronouns they/he. Some things about me, I like reading, writing, dnd, theater, art. I have an art doc and my yt channel linked below. Pms are always open if you need to talk. Love y’all <3
Is art
@Irunwithskissors
(Both are links, please click them…)
Thanks, Sel.
(_~.~_)
The Soft in the Storm, your Friendly Neighborhood Storysmith, The Fae Conspirator
two wrenns flap tenderly underneath the skies,
eyes lying of their pursuit of the prize
but when all cards are thrown down and evils surmise,
then comes the time that the weaker must rise
[~.~]
That's awesome Sel!
Hello! Call me Tana or Gato
My pronouns are They/Them (I don't actually care, though)
I am a teenager. I have Autism and anxiety. And, you would probably call me Trans, Aromantic, and Asexual
I'm nonbinary, yay! But I will mother you if you are being stupid
ALL HAIL MERLIN!!!!!!! [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] = [roll][roll:-6]+[roll:-5]+[roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll]
I have adopted Golden, Salem, Wes, and Aspen
Well, the difference is you knew that's how you felt; I might just be thinking my feelings are something other than they are.
But that's good for you! Glad things worked out okay for you.
Maaaaay be guilty of matching my sig up to Foalin's a bit. Maybe.
Here's a link to my Discord thing: The Dorky Dragon Tavern
Hello, all! Foalin is my familiar, after a little conversation...
this is my extended signature(hint, click it): :3
Golden, why don't you take some time and vent, so we can help you?
Hello! Call me Tana or Gato
My pronouns are They/Them (I don't actually care, though)
I am a teenager. I have Autism and anxiety. And, you would probably call me Trans, Aromantic, and Asexual
I'm nonbinary, yay! But I will mother you if you are being stupid
ALL HAIL MERLIN!!!!!!! [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] = [roll][roll:-6]+[roll:-5]+[roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll]
I have adopted Golden, Salem, Wes, and Aspen
Hold on I got an idea
Golden check your PMs
(_~.~_)
The Soft in the Storm, your Friendly Neighborhood Storysmith, The Fae Conspirator
two wrenns flap tenderly underneath the skies,
eyes lying of their pursuit of the prize
but when all cards are thrown down and evils surmise,
then comes the time that the weaker must rise
[~.~]
If we are making a golden venting PM, please add me
I want to help my D&D child
Hello! Call me Tana or Gato
My pronouns are They/Them (I don't actually care, though)
I am a teenager. I have Autism and anxiety. And, you would probably call me Trans, Aromantic, and Asexual
I'm nonbinary, yay! But I will mother you if you are being stupid
ALL HAIL MERLIN!!!!!!! [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] = [roll][roll:-6]+[roll:-5]+[roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll]
I have adopted Golden, Salem, Wes, and Aspen
XD
(_~.~_)
The Soft in the Storm, your Friendly Neighborhood Storysmith, The Fae Conspirator
two wrenns flap tenderly underneath the skies,
eyes lying of their pursuit of the prize
but when all cards are thrown down and evils surmise,
then comes the time that the weaker must rise
[~.~]
I do tho
Hello! Call me Tana or Gato
My pronouns are They/Them (I don't actually care, though)
I am a teenager. I have Autism and anxiety. And, you would probably call me Trans, Aromantic, and Asexual
I'm nonbinary, yay! But I will mother you if you are being stupid
ALL HAIL MERLIN!!!!!!! [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] = [roll][roll:-6]+[roll:-5]+[roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll]
I have adopted Golden, Salem, Wes, and Aspen
Yeah
(_~.~_)
The Soft in the Storm, your Friendly Neighborhood Storysmith, The Fae Conspirator
two wrenns flap tenderly underneath the skies,
eyes lying of their pursuit of the prize
but when all cards are thrown down and evils surmise,
then comes the time that the weaker must rise
[~.~]
WAIT A MOMENT
Oh, this actually explains a few things.
Maaaaay be guilty of matching my sig up to Foalin's a bit. Maybe.
Here's a link to my Discord thing: The Dorky Dragon Tavern
Hello, all! Foalin is my familiar, after a little conversation...
this is my extended signature(hint, click it): :3
What does?
Hello! Call me Tana or Gato
My pronouns are They/Them (I don't actually care, though)
I am a teenager. I have Autism and anxiety. And, you would probably call me Trans, Aromantic, and Asexual
I'm nonbinary, yay! But I will mother you if you are being stupid
ALL HAIL MERLIN!!!!!!! [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] = [roll][roll:-6]+[roll:-5]+[roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll]
I have adopted Golden, Salem, Wes, and Aspen
I was wondering what inspired the creation of that PM.
Maaaaay be guilty of matching my sig up to Foalin's a bit. Maybe.
Here's a link to my Discord thing: The Dorky Dragon Tavern
Hello, all! Foalin is my familiar, after a little conversation...
this is my extended signature(hint, click it): :3