Monstrous Compendium Vol. 1: Spelljammer Creatures
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there’s this girl i like, but i don’t know how to talk to people, so i need help. like advice help. I’m homeschooled, so i basically don’t have a life. and the only class me and her are both in is seminary.
Nebularoace they/them call me Foalin
“No doubt I’ll tire of this eventually, but for now… I am content.” -Murtagh
ALL HAIL MERLIN! [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] = [roll][roll:-6]+[roll:-5]+[roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll]
Hello all! I am Golden_Axolotl_Dragon's familiar, after a little conversation...
extended sig(click it) :3
Simply, ask her
Hello! Call me Tana
My pronouns are She/Her
I have Autism. And, you would probably call me Trans Femme, Pansexual pancake, and Ace
I will always support you. To the best of my ability. Because that is my way of showing how much I care
Current Dice Code: [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] = [roll][roll:-6]+[roll:-5]+[roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll]
Current List of Children: Golden, Salem, Wes, Aspen, Link, and Foalin.
Oh, Foalin...
*a gale on this shall knock at your door tomorrow*
don't worry buddy I've got all the advice
When you left this town, with your windows down
And the wilderness inside
Let the exits pass, all the tar and glass
'Til the road and sky align
extended sig
Yeah, you are fine, you have help, don't worry
Hello! Call me Tana
My pronouns are She/Her
I have Autism. And, you would probably call me Trans Femme, Pansexual pancake, and Ace
I will always support you. To the best of my ability. Because that is my way of showing how much I care
Current Dice Code: [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] = [roll][roll:-6]+[roll:-5]+[roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll]
Current List of Children: Golden, Salem, Wes, Aspen, Link, and Foalin.
You are in very good hands here, Foalin...
When you left this town, with your windows down
And the wilderness inside
Let the exits pass, all the tar and glass
'Til the road and sky align
extended sig
I believe both of us have been in a relationship
Hello! Call me Tana
My pronouns are She/Her
I have Autism. And, you would probably call me Trans Femme, Pansexual pancake, and Ace
I will always support you. To the best of my ability. Because that is my way of showing how much I care
Current Dice Code: [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] = [roll][roll:-6]+[roll:-5]+[roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll]
Current List of Children: Golden, Salem, Wes, Aspen, Link, and Foalin.
what do I say tho? how do I talk to a person? what if she doesn't like me? what if she does? should I have one of my friends(he's also her friend) ask her, or ask her myself? do I tell my parents, or not tell my parents?
Nebularoace they/them call me Foalin
“No doubt I’ll tire of this eventually, but for now… I am content.” -Murtagh
ALL HAIL MERLIN! [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] = [roll][roll:-6]+[roll:-5]+[roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll]
Hello all! I am Golden_Axolotl_Dragon's familiar, after a little conversation...
extended sig(click it) :3
Are your parents okay with you being in a relationship?
You should, most likely ask her, yourself
You are talking to a person right now!
Hello! Call me Tana
My pronouns are She/Her
I have Autism. And, you would probably call me Trans Femme, Pansexual pancake, and Ace
I will always support you. To the best of my ability. Because that is my way of showing how much I care
Current Dice Code: [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] = [roll][roll:-6]+[roll:-5]+[roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll]
Current List of Children: Golden, Salem, Wes, Aspen, Link, and Foalin.
my parents think I'm too young, which is probably true
but what if I make a fool of myself?
im talking online to a person, talking irl is very different
Nebularoace they/them call me Foalin
“No doubt I’ll tire of this eventually, but for now… I am content.” -Murtagh
ALL HAIL MERLIN! [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] = [roll][roll:-6]+[roll:-5]+[roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll]
Hello all! I am Golden_Axolotl_Dragon's familiar, after a little conversation...
extended sig(click it) :3
Here comes the first wave:
Talking to people actually isn't as hard as it seems. If there's anything, anything, I've learned from being a decently popular dork (this is a new thing), it's that you don't need to talk at all. The really one true social rule for all humans is that they love to talk about themselves. Get her talking. Ask her a few questions (about herself). Learn about her --- I bet you guys don't get a lot of time to talk during seminary (idk, I've never had it), so...talk to her outside of that. Maybe ask if she wants to study together (as friends), if there's homework or something. Get her to hang out somehow. Figure out some of her interests --- these'll be useful.
Then: play it chill. The biggest mistake people make is rushing in too fast. Don't immediately walk up to her and ask "hey do you wanna go out?". Just play it chill. 99% of people who end up dating are already friends, no matter what the movies say. So --- and I know it's agonizing --- become her friend! Learn more about her, get to spend some time around her. Don't make it overly weird.
Then...heck, you don't need to do it like the movies. There doesn't need to be some special moment at twilight on a dusky hill on the twelfth night of June. Ask her out! And be confident --- maybe she says no! It's all ok, even when it seems terrible.
And if she says yes...wellllllll then, you sly dog! Gone and gotten yourself a girl while you've been gone! (Jk)
Anyway, look. The other main lesson is to be chill. Take it relaxed. Even when something seems world-ending, be calm about it. Let it flow by you. The less reactant you are to things, the better. Finally --- about talking to people? I know this is a school-counselor's-office poster but anyway: be yourself. Don't let them faze you. You are you, whether you like it or not. So what if they care? What can they do?
Most of all, you've got this. You don't have to try any of the above. Do what works for you --- this is your first sojourn. Believe in yourself. Don't let others get you down. You got this.
:D
(Part 1)
When you left this town, with your windows down
And the wilderness inside
Let the exits pass, all the tar and glass
'Til the road and sky align
extended sig
It is, but you can still try
It doesn't matter, actually
True, but it does make it easier
Hello! Call me Tana
My pronouns are She/Her
I have Autism. And, you would probably call me Trans Femme, Pansexual pancake, and Ace
I will always support you. To the best of my ability. Because that is my way of showing how much I care
Current Dice Code: [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] = [roll][roll:-6]+[roll:-5]+[roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll]
Current List of Children: Golden, Salem, Wes, Aspen, Link, and Foalin.
Too young? No such thing! Dude --- you're 14, right? Same as me. I already had a date (we don't talk about how that went guys) last year. Plus --- it doesn't matter what they say, does it? It's your crush, not theirs. Do what you want. You have a right to have crushes, to go out on dates. They can't stop you.
Yeah, so what if you're talking online right now? Again. Getting people to talk about themselves by asking them questions is Step #1. Step 2 is just talking --- no matter what they think, don't let it faze you. The best people are those who are themselves and don't let others get them down.
When you left this town, with your windows down
And the wilderness inside
Let the exits pass, all the tar and glass
'Til the road and sky align
extended sig
Ask her yourself, definitely.
Say? Say whatever the (GP) you want! You're yourself --- practice it in the mirror if you want, or come up with it on the fly!
What if she doesn't like you...that's a harder one. Everyone struggles with this. It's hard to overcome no matter what others say, but all I'll leave you with is this: no matter what she says, this is your first try. It's not your last --- it's like learning to ride a bike. You'll probably fall the first time. But then you get back up, dust yourself off, and keep on going.
Also: tell your parents. They have a right to know, and they can probably help. No matter what they think of it, it's your decision to make, not theirs.
Anyone here's PMs are also always open, if you need to chat.
Anyway: I gotta go. Computer's at 1%. See you tomorrow, and you got this!
When you left this town, with your windows down
And the wilderness inside
Let the exits pass, all the tar and glass
'Til the road and sky align
extended sig
thanks 4 the advice. see u
Nebularoace they/them call me Foalin
“No doubt I’ll tire of this eventually, but for now… I am content.” -Murtagh
ALL HAIL MERLIN! [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] = [roll][roll:-6]+[roll:-5]+[roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll]
Hello all! I am Golden_Axolotl_Dragon's familiar, after a little conversation...
extended sig(click it) :3
Give us updates tomorrow
Hello! Call me Tana
My pronouns are She/Her
I have Autism. And, you would probably call me Trans Femme, Pansexual pancake, and Ace
I will always support you. To the best of my ability. Because that is my way of showing how much I care
Current Dice Code: [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] = [roll][roll:-6]+[roll:-5]+[roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll]
Current List of Children: Golden, Salem, Wes, Aspen, Link, and Foalin.
I can predict the update. it will be something like, I chickened out again.
Nebularoace they/them call me Foalin
“No doubt I’ll tire of this eventually, but for now… I am content.” -Murtagh
ALL HAIL MERLIN! [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] = [roll][roll:-6]+[roll:-5]+[roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll]
Hello all! I am Golden_Axolotl_Dragon's familiar, after a little conversation...
extended sig(click it) :3
I will yell at you
You Do not want me to yell at you
Hello! Call me Tana
My pronouns are She/Her
I have Autism. And, you would probably call me Trans Femme, Pansexual pancake, and Ace
I will always support you. To the best of my ability. Because that is my way of showing how much I care
Current Dice Code: [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] = [roll][roll:-6]+[roll:-5]+[roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll]
Current List of Children: Golden, Salem, Wes, Aspen, Link, and Foalin.
trust me, I'm going to chicken out
Nebularoace they/them call me Foalin
“No doubt I’ll tire of this eventually, but for now… I am content.” -Murtagh
ALL HAIL MERLIN! [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] = [roll][roll:-6]+[roll:-5]+[roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll]
Hello all! I am Golden_Axolotl_Dragon's familiar, after a little conversation...
extended sig(click it) :3
Foalin. If you chicken out, two things will happen. First --- and the most important --- the wrath of Gato and I shall be wreaked upon you.
Secondly: Think about it this way. You like her, right? You want to be with her, right? Do you think that not asking her will get you there? Maybe she says no, maybe she says yes. You won't know until you take the chance. If you don't ask her, then...well, you'll never get the goal fulfilled. Also -- you have an advantage over some of us. You're homeschooled, and you only see her in seminary. Thus, gossip won't really circulate or affect you. (Anyway: not tryna say anything except for DO IT WHAT'S THE DOWNSIDE???)
When you left this town, with your windows down
And the wilderness inside
Let the exits pass, all the tar and glass
'Til the road and sky align
extended sig
Hi, Foalin. Just wanted to say - if they don't like you, they aren't WORTH your time.
Plenty of people care about you -including me- and are happy to know you. You might like this girl right now, but there are a lot of people out there where how they SEEM ain't what they are.
Be cautious, but confident in yourself. If they're worth your time, they'll like you. Otherwise, it's just a fluke of fate.
Here's a link to my Discord thing: The Dorky Dragon Tavern
"Avoid roasted cabbage, do not eat earwax, and look on the bright side of life." -Angela
this is Gato's way. [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] + [roll]1d4[/roll] = [roll][roll:-6]+[roll:-5]+[roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll]
Hello, all! Foalin is my familiar, after a little conversation...
extended sig(click it): :3