Looking for a long term mostly serious campaign that isn't afraid to strike a nerve

Title is the jist of it but to break it down I've noticed most games nowadays lean super far into the comedy aspect. They almost never daring to run with darker themes or do anything that might go against the grain/going directly against characters ideal/morals. Comedy is fine and the end goal is to have fun but I'm looking for something a little gritty with comedy coming from interactions and choices rather than the world itself being overly goofy. I also prefer to play with people who don't minmax and actually let there characters fail and have flaws that includes trying not to metagame knowledge that character realistically shouldn't have. I'm mainly looking for a group to join but I can bring 1 or 2 extra people if required in order to fill out numbers. Last and most important thing especially if I bring someone with me is I/we will not not sanitize our language for someone's feelings people need to have thicker skin and realize words are just words obviously we're not going to be slinging slurs(maybe fantasy ones if that's the setting) but if something is stupid we're probably going to say something in a way that would probably get this taken down with how this site is now.