Just a Girl in the DnD World (CDT)

Game: D&D 5e, 5.5e, 3.5e 
Group preferred: Online (I'm open to any platform, but if a GM is looking to use foundry for a VTT I have a server I am willing to let them use for FREEEEE!!!)
Experience: I am most familiar with 5e, some 5.5e, with about 9 years total of experience. Not much for 3.5, but I really want to learn.
Location/Timezone: Midwest USA CDT
Availability: I am looking at playing Tuesday, Wednesday, or Thursday nights after 6pm CDT
Preferred role: Player (I've done a lot of DM and want to just have a regular game to be a player in... I miss it...)
Game style: I am someone that is up for anything! I've had some rough experiences with DMs, so I am looking for something that I can just sink into for an hour or a few and just enjoy things. Something free preferably. I like heavy RP and don't have much of that in the current sessions I play in either as DM or player. I feel like I am missing out in that aspect. I love homebrew, but am willing to play in any setting with any items (as long as they are balanced).
Just a Heads Up: I am a trans gal with a wife, so I am looking for something LGBTQI+ friendly.