Relationships are terrible at the start, pretty fun for a good while, and then terrible again at the end. It’s just about stretching out that sweet spot loll
i feel like it’s more finding someone you’re compatible with
Yeahhh that’s true if you’re serious about it. As a high schooler, finding someone who you can date for longer than a few months is INCREDIBLY difficult, in my experiences at least. Not impossible tho 😛
I think that’s just from jumping into relationships too fast. I found the person I married when I was in high school. You can’t go actively looking for it tbh, it just has to hit you in the face randomly. People put way too much emphasis on romantic relationships.
Some damn good advice. I spent the last like month chasing after one girl. Had to give myself a real talking to if i wanted to get over her and it was not easy man 😭 . Guess I just need to wait for it to happen with the right person
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No cost too great. No mind to think. No will to break. No voice to cry suffering. Born of God and Void.
So yeah, for at least a few more years, I’m not touching romance with a thirty nine and a half foot long pole.
Cupid uses a sniper rifle. Upgrades, people. Upgrades.
Cupid antimatter rifle. Only the worthy survive to marriage.
And wise decision. Get that frontal lobe developed 💥 I made terrible decisions when I was younger and I started dating at like 12-13
Time for the culling. No relationship shall remain unscarred.
AHH I could never.
NOOOOOOOO
I had a hard time saying no to people a lot of the time, I‘ve gotten better at it :,)
Thanatos and Eros look alike for a good reason. Two sides of the same coin…
that is simply wonderful for you! I’m glad to hear you’re gettin’ better at it.
what I’ve done is that whenever someone asks me anything romance related in any capacity, I give the answer, ‘hah, no, the last to try and infatuate me was found three days later in a ditch.” And then they stop asking questions about the subject. (Exaggerated for comedic effect, but I am very clear with my views)
Some damn good advice. I spent the last like month chasing after one girl. Had to give myself a real talking to if i wanted to get over her and it was not easy man 😭 . Guess I just need to wait for it to happen with the right person
Yea, girlfriend chasing is a weird societal pressure, as if having a girlfriend will magically fix your loneliness and self esteem and whatnot. But that kind of expectation puts way too much pressure on the other person and leads to a lot of breakups.
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Well it’s almost 11:30 and I have homework due tomorrow. Good night folks, and I’ll see if grad is still here come morning.
Ta-ta! *Compresses into an infinitely small point and disappears*
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O sorrow, I have ended, you see, by respecting you, because I am certain you will never leave me.
Ah! I realize it: your beauty lies in the force of your being. You are like those who never left the sad fireside corner of my poor black heart.
O my sorrow, you are better than a well-beloved: because I know that on the day of my final agony, you will be there, lying in my sheets, O sorrow, so that you might once again attempt to enter my heart.
Some damn good advice. I spent the last like month chasing after one girl. Had to give myself a real talking to if i wanted to get over her and it was not easy man 😭 . Guess I just need to wait for it to happen with the right person
Yea, girlfriend chasing is a weird societal pressure, as if having a girlfriend will magically fix your loneliness and self esteem and whatnot. But that kind of expectation puts way too much pressure on the other person and leads to a lot of breakups.
People are so weird :<
at my school, too, this stuff happens and I watch it play out and it’s so bizarre
Thanatos and Eros look alike for a good reason. Two sides of the same coin…
that is simply wonderful for you! I’m glad to hear you’re gettin’ better at it.
what I’ve done is that whenever someone asks me anything romance related in any capacity, I give the answer, ‘hah, no, the last to try and infatuate me was found three days later in a ditch.” And then they stop asking questions about the subject. (Exaggerated for comedic effect, but I am very clear with my views)
arch, you get the bravest person in the world award.
My friends know I’m bad at saying no, so everytime someone makes an advance or asks me for something, I have to tell them first so they make sure I’m not being exploited
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Well it’s almost 11:30 and I have homework due tomorrow. Good night folks, and I’ll see if grad is still here come morning.
Ta-ta! *Compresses into an infinitely small point and disappears*
adios!
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Some damn good advice. I spent the last like month chasing after one girl. Had to give myself a real talking to if i wanted to get over her and it was not easy man 😭 . Guess I just need to wait for it to happen with the right person
Yea, girlfriend chasing is a weird societal pressure, as if having a girlfriend will magically fix your loneliness and self esteem and whatnot. But that kind of expectation puts way too much pressure on the other person and leads to a lot of breakups.
People are so weird :<
at my school, too, this stuff happens and I watch it play out and it’s so bizarre
Well I’m a little weirdo so that tracks
But hopefully I’m a little weirdo who doesn’t need constant social affirmation to thrive
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No cost too great. No mind to think. No will to break. No voice to cry suffering. Born of God and Void.
Some damn good advice. I spent the last like month chasing after one girl. Had to give myself a real talking to if i wanted to get over her and it was not easy man 😭 . Guess I just need to wait for it to happen with the right person
Yea, girlfriend chasing is a weird societal pressure, as if having a girlfriend will magically fix your loneliness and self esteem and whatnot. But that kind of expectation puts way too much pressure on the other person and leads to a lot of breakups.
People are so weird :<
at my school, too, this stuff happens and I watch it play out and it’s so bizarre
literally, it’s also so like.. unfair to women when every positive interaction they have with a dude might lead to them being attracted to her. people need to learn to have best friends again or something
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Some damn good advice. I spent the last like month chasing after one girl. Had to give myself a real talking to if i wanted to get over her and it was not easy man 😭 . Guess I just need to wait for it to happen with the right person
Yea, girlfriend chasing is a weird societal pressure, as if having a girlfriend will magically fix your loneliness and self esteem and whatnot. But that kind of expectation puts way too much pressure on the other person and leads to a lot of breakups.
People are so weird :<
at my school, too, this stuff happens and I watch it play out and it’s so bizarre
literally, it’s also so like.. unfair to women when every positive interaction they have with a dude might lead to them being attracted to her. people need to learn to have best friends again or something
Aghhhhh so trueeeeeeeee
I knew this one guy we were friends and I didn't like like him and bro he asked me to a dance SEVERAL times like can we not just be friends?
I go by She/her pronouns and am proudly lesbian. I'm a big fan of Deltarune, The Amazing Digital Circus, Sonic the Hedgehog, The Good Place, The Drew Carey Show, Futurama, and I think there's probably more but...
Thanatos and Eros look alike for a good reason. Two sides of the same coin…
that is simply wonderful for you! I’m glad to hear you’re gettin’ better at it.
what I’ve done is that whenever someone asks me anything romance related in any capacity, I give the answer, ‘hah, no, the last to try and infatuate me was found three days later in a ditch.” And then they stop asking questions about the subject. (Exaggerated for comedic effect, but I am very clear with my views)
arch, you get the bravest person in the world award.
My friends know I’m bad at saying no, so everytime someone makes an advance or asks me for something, I have to tell them first so they make sure I’m not being exploited
Aww, thank you so much! I have learned that the best way to avoid confusion or conflict about this sort of stuff is to be very direct about your views and opinions.
Do you know what is. The. Most. Annoying. Thing. In. The. Universe?
my friend group has a lot of people of different genders, and so other people. Constantly. Ship us. Or think we are dating. Or LIE TO ME ABOUT ONE OF MY FRIENDS HAVING A CRUSH ON ME. OR TRY TO LIKE, SET ME UP. WITH ONE OF MY FRIENDS.
these Things have happened. Several times. This year alone.
I knew this one guy we were friends and I didn't like like him and bro he asked me to a dance SEVERAL times like can we not just be friends?
Literally, and most men are taught that they don’t need to take no for an answer because that means someone is playing hard to get. It’s so frustrating. I’ve had a lot of friends that are girls that complain about this thing all the time. Also hello :] I don’t think we’ve met
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Aww, thank you so much! I have learned that the best way to avoid confusion or conflict about this sort of stuff is to be very direct about your views and opinions.
Also arch, do you have a thread you want to play on rn while I have time? i’m cool with whatever :] new or old one
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Aww, thank you so much! I have learned that the best way to avoid confusion or conflict about this sort of stuff is to be very direct about your views and opinions.
Also arch, do you have a thread you want to play on rn while I have time? i’m cool with whatever :] new or old one
Well we already have an interaction up for Ascend to godhood…
do you feel like camp half blood? Maybe Caleb and Alex? Of course, I know that Alex is a very high energy character so if you don’t want to play Alex you don’t have to. :>
Do you know what is. The. Most. Annoying. Thing. In. The. Universe?
my friend group has a lot of people of different genders, and so other people. Constantly. Ship us. Or think we are dating. Or LIE TO ME ABOUT ONE OF MY FRIENDS HAVING A CRUSH ON ME. OR TRY TO LIKE, SET ME UP. WITH ONE OF MY FRIENDS.
these Things have happened. Several times. This year alone.
That happens to me plenty. Being in a theater class amidst nine girls and I’m the only dude…it’s an interest class to say the least. Plus one of my best friends is a girl who’s openly lesbian and has been since like 7th grade and we STILL get shipped
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My name’s Gradius, this is my second account :P I love Hollow Knight and I have been on ddb for a while. Come rp with me anytime! It is my purpose. My title that was given to me by Drummer is…SPIRIT OF THE WEST, GUARDIAN OF THE HOLLOWS.
No cost too great. No mind to think. No will to break. No voice to cry suffering. Born of God and Void.
Do you know what is. The. Most. Annoying. Thing. In. The. Universe?
my friend group has a lot of people of different genders, and so other people. Constantly. Ship us. Or think we are dating. Or LIE TO ME ABOUT ONE OF MY FRIENDS HAVING A CRUSH ON ME. OR TRY TO LIKE, SET ME UP. WITH ONE OF MY FRIENDS.
these Things have happened. Several times. This year alone.
SO REAL! I’m sick of people seeing a guy and a girl next to eachother and assuming they like eachother or are dating. So annoying. Or not being able to stay over at a friend’s house because they’re a girl, like dawg I am not going to do anything weird this is literally my friend. ougehdbnjend my friend group has an even mix of both and we have that problem a lot
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My name’s Gradius, this is my second account :P I love Hollow Knight and I have been on ddb for a while. Come rp with me anytime! It is my purpose. My title that was given to me by Drummer is…SPIRIT OF THE WEST, GUARDIAN OF THE HOLLOWS.
No cost too great. No mind to think. No will to break. No voice to cry suffering. Born of God and Void.
Well we already have an interaction up for Ascend to godhood…
do you feel like camp half blood? Maybe Caleb and Alex? Of course, I know that Alex is a very high energy character so if you don’t want to play Alex you don’t have to. :>
I probably wont be on the CHB thread tonight 😔 but I’ve been working on his sheet, I still am not sure what to build him as exactly
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Some damn good advice. I spent the last like month chasing after one girl. Had to give myself a real talking to if i wanted to get over her and it was not easy man 😭 . Guess I just need to wait for it to happen with the right person
My name’s Gradius, this is my second account :P I love Hollow Knight and I have been on ddb for a while. Come rp with me anytime! It is my purpose. My title that was given to me by Drummer is…SPIRIT OF THE WEST, GUARDIAN OF THE HOLLOWS.
No cost too great. No mind to think. No will to break. No voice to cry suffering. Born of God and Void.
TRON LIVES
Thanatos and Eros look alike for a good reason. Two sides of the same coin…
that is simply wonderful for you! I’m glad to hear you’re gettin’ better at it.
what I’ve done is that whenever someone asks me anything romance related in any capacity, I give the answer, ‘hah, no, the last to try and infatuate me was found three days later in a ditch.” And then they stop asking questions about the subject. (Exaggerated for comedic effect, but I am very clear with my views)
Yea, girlfriend chasing is a weird societal pressure, as if having a girlfriend will magically fix your loneliness and self esteem and whatnot. But that kind of expectation puts way too much pressure on the other person and leads to a lot of breakups.
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making a smoothie for meta
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Φ • happily married to my lovely redpelt, minmaxer, microbiology undergrad, and lover of anything colored red • Φ
Well it’s almost 11:30 and I have homework due tomorrow. Good night folks, and I’ll see if grad is still here come morning.
Ta-ta! *Compresses into an infinitely small point and disappears*
O sorrow, I have ended, you see, by respecting you, because I am certain you will never leave me.
Ah! I realize it: your beauty lies in the force of your being. You are like those who never left the sad fireside corner of my poor black heart.
O my sorrow, you are better than a well-beloved: because I know that on the day of my final agony, you will be there, lying in my sheets, O sorrow, so that you might once again attempt to enter my heart.
-Excerpt, Prayer for loving sorrow
People are so weird :<
at my school, too, this stuff happens and I watch it play out and it’s so bizarre
arch, you get the bravest person in the world award.
My friends know I’m bad at saying no, so everytime someone makes an advance or asks me for something, I have to tell them first so they make sure I’m not being exploited
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making a smoothie for meta
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Φ • happily married to my lovely redpelt, minmaxer, microbiology undergrad, and lover of anything colored red • Φ
adios!
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making a smoothie for meta
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Well I’m a little weirdo so that tracks
But hopefully I’m a little weirdo who doesn’t need constant social affirmation to thrive
My name’s Gradius, this is my second account :P I love Hollow Knight and I have been on ddb for a while. Come rp with me anytime! It is my purpose. My title that was given to me by Drummer is…SPIRIT OF THE WEST, GUARDIAN OF THE HOLLOWS.
No cost too great. No mind to think. No will to break. No voice to cry suffering. Born of God and Void.
TRON LIVES
literally, it’s also so like.. unfair to women when every positive interaction they have with a dude might lead to them being attracted to her. people need to learn to have best friends again or something
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making a smoothie for meta
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Aghhhhh so trueeeeeeeee
I knew this one guy we were friends and I didn't like like him and bro he asked me to a dance SEVERAL times like can we not just be friends?
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Aww, thank you so much! I have learned that the best way to avoid confusion or conflict about this sort of stuff is to be very direct about your views and opinions.
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Do you know what is. The. Most. Annoying. Thing. In. The. Universe?
my friend group has a lot of people of different genders, and so other people. Constantly. Ship us. Or think we are dating. Or LIE TO ME ABOUT ONE OF MY FRIENDS HAVING A CRUSH ON ME. OR TRY TO LIKE, SET ME UP. WITH ONE OF MY FRIENDS.
these Things have happened. Several times. This year alone.
Literally, and most men are taught that they don’t need to take no for an answer because that means someone is playing hard to get. It’s so frustrating. I’ve had a lot of friends that are girls that complain about this thing all the time. Also hello :] I don’t think we’ve met
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making a smoothie for meta
——————| EXTENDED SIG |——————
Φ • happily married to my lovely redpelt, minmaxer, microbiology undergrad, and lover of anything colored red • Φ
Also arch, do you have a thread you want to play on rn while I have time? i’m cool with whatever :] new or old one
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making a smoothie for meta
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Φ • happily married to my lovely redpelt, minmaxer, microbiology undergrad, and lover of anything colored red • Φ
Well we already have an interaction up for Ascend to godhood…
do you feel like camp half blood? Maybe Caleb and Alex? Of course, I know that Alex is a very high energy character so if you don’t want to play Alex you don’t have to. :>
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That happens to me plenty. Being in a theater class amidst nine girls and I’m the only dude…it’s an interest class to say the least. Plus one of my best friends is a girl who’s openly lesbian and has been since like 7th grade and we STILL get shipped
My name’s Gradius, this is my second account :P I love Hollow Knight and I have been on ddb for a while. Come rp with me anytime! It is my purpose. My title that was given to me by Drummer is…SPIRIT OF THE WEST, GUARDIAN OF THE HOLLOWS.
No cost too great. No mind to think. No will to break. No voice to cry suffering. Born of God and Void.
TRON LIVES
SO REAL! I’m sick of people seeing a guy and a girl next to eachother and assuming they like eachother or are dating. So annoying. Or not being able to stay over at a friend’s house because they’re a girl, like dawg I am not going to do anything weird this is literally my friend. ougehdbnjend my friend group has an even mix of both and we have that problem a lot
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making a smoothie for meta
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Φ • happily married to my lovely redpelt, minmaxer, microbiology undergrad, and lover of anything colored red • Φ
YEAHHHHHH
My name’s Gradius, this is my second account :P I love Hollow Knight and I have been on ddb for a while. Come rp with me anytime! It is my purpose. My title that was given to me by Drummer is…SPIRIT OF THE WEST, GUARDIAN OF THE HOLLOWS.
No cost too great. No mind to think. No will to break. No voice to cry suffering. Born of God and Void.
TRON LIVES
I probably wont be on the CHB thread tonight 😔 but I’ve been working on his sheet, I still am not sure what to build him as exactly
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