I’m too muddled to properly get anything out anyway.
Ditto. Stressed with culminatings.
...of what sort?
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I’m too muddled to properly get anything out anyway.
Sure, why not. Any advice on how to get over the fear of coming out?
Talk to a trusted person first
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I’m too muddled to properly get anything out anyway.
Sure, why not. Any advice on how to get over the fear of coming out?
Hah! *awkward laugh*
It really depends. Who do you want to come out to, and what's preventing you from telling them?
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A friend, but I am afraid of them accidentally mentioning it to somone whom I don't want to know.
If it's something that you know to be true about yourself, then why be afraid about them telling others?
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A friend, but I am afraid of them accidentally mentioning it to somone whom I don't want to know.
If it's something that you know to be true about yourself, then why be afraid about them telling others?
Life reasons, but thanks. That helped.
Is it the ostracization that comes with it? The jokes and the hate and all? I know what you're talking about.
Would they tell someone even if you told them not to?
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A friend, but I am afraid of them accidentally mentioning it to somone whom I don't want to know.
If it's something that you know to be true about yourself, then why be afraid about them telling others?
Life reasons, but thanks. That helped.
Is it the ostracization that comes with it? The jokes and the hate and all? I know what you're talking about.
Would they tell someone even if you told them not to?
That is the worry. And they might accidentally tell someone, that is another worry.
Comrade, you are not alone. I'm dealing with the same worry at the moment. I want to tell my friends, but I have no clue how they'll react, if they'll want to stay friends.
Roomba Knight, Architect of the Cataclysm, Kitsumiho! Dubbed The Fluffy Bowman by Golden. He/They
Theatre Kid, Ravenclaw, bookworm, DM, Lego fanatic, flautist, mythology nerd, pedantic about spelling. I also love foxes, cats, otters, and red pandas!
I love Korean Mythology. If you want to ask me about something, send me a PM!
Aig amannan bidh mi air mo ghlacadh ro mhòr an-dràsta...
A friend, but I am afraid of them accidentally mentioning it to somone whom I don't want to know.
If it's something that you know to be true about yourself, then why be afraid about them telling others?
Life reasons, but thanks. That helped.
Is it the ostracization that comes with it? The jokes and the hate and all? I know what you're talking about.
Would they tell someone even if you told them not to?
That is the worry. And they might accidentally tell someone, that is another worry.
Comrade, you are not alone. I'm dealing with the same worry at the moment. I want to tell my friends, but I have no clue how they'll react, if they'll want to stay friends.
I found myself in this conundrum once upon a time, and haven't told most of my friends to be honest. Having come out to my parents only two weeks ago, I don't want to say I have amazing expertise lmao, but I do want to say that it's not as hard as it seems, and honestly, why should you care what they think?
This is like them ostracizing you for being colorblind, just identity is something that's become so controversial and important. It just doesn't have to be that important. Honestly, my friends and I were having the goofiest conversation and one of them just somehow asked me "Are you gay?" rather jokingly, to which I responded "I'm bi." And that was that. No drama about it. They haven't changed, and only become better friends on the trip since then. If you overdramatize it, it'll only get worse, and honestly, unless you actually have heard people say anti-queer things, and even if they have, most will be okay with it.
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A friend, but I am afraid of them accidentally mentioning it to somone whom I don't want to know.
If it's something that you know to be true about yourself, then why be afraid about them telling others?
Life reasons, but thanks. That helped.
Is it the ostracization that comes with it? The jokes and the hate and all? I know what you're talking about.
Would they tell someone even if you told them not to?
That is the worry. And they might accidentally tell someone, that is another worry.
Comrade, you are not alone. I'm dealing with the same worry at the moment. I want to tell my friends, but I have no clue how they'll react, if they'll want to stay friends.
I found myself in this conundrum once upon a time, and haven't told most of my friends to be honest. Having come out to my parents only two weeks ago, I don't want to say I have amazing expertise lmao, but I do want to say that it's not as hard as it seems, and honestly, why should you care what they think?
This is like them ostracizing you for being colorblind, just identity is something that's become so controversial and important. It just doesn't have to be that important. Honestly, my friends and I were having the goofiest conversation and one of them just somehow asked me "Are you gay?" rather jokingly, to which I responded "I'm bi." And that was that. No drama about it. They haven't changed, and only become better friends on the trip since then. If you overdramatize it, it'll only get worse, and honestly, unless you actually have heard people say anti-queer things, and even if they have, most will be okay with it.
TL;DR: It's something about yourself, ergo it doesn't have to be stressful. Identity is overdramatized, but it's no different (or it doesn't have to be) than telling them anything else about yourself
Just ask anyone on the DDB Discord group and uh they'll tell you that I came out very calmly and everything for sure 100% fifty percent of the time perhaps if you flip a coin and ignore half of the results---
Wes (i/d/g/a/f) Fills del caos i la locura, filles de les males herbes Trens que van descarrilar Ara llancen pedres contra eixe ninot del vostre altar |------extended sig------|
Roomba Knight, Architect of the Cataclysm, Kitsumiho! Dubbed The Fluffy Bowman by Golden. He/They
Theatre Kid, Ravenclaw, bookworm, DM, Lego fanatic, flautist, mythology nerd, pedantic about spelling. I also love foxes, cats, otters, and red pandas!
I love Korean Mythology. If you want to ask me about something, send me a PM!
Aig amannan bidh mi air mo ghlacadh ro mhòr an-dràsta...
I’m too muddled to properly get anything out anyway.
Ditto. Stressed with culminatings.
...of what sort?
Uhhhh like end-of-year assessments.
Oh, is that what they call them in Canada?
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Roomba Knight, Architect of the Cataclysm, Kitsumiho! Dubbed The Fluffy Bowman by Golden. He/They
Theatre Kid, Ravenclaw, bookworm, DM, Lego fanatic, flautist, mythology nerd, pedantic about spelling. I also love foxes, cats, otters, and red pandas!
I love Korean Mythology. If you want to ask me about something, send me a PM!
Aig amannan bidh mi air mo ghlacadh ro mhòr an-dràsta...
Roomba Knight, Architect of the Cataclysm, Kitsumiho! Dubbed The Fluffy Bowman by Golden. He/They
Theatre Kid, Ravenclaw, bookworm, DM, Lego fanatic, flautist, mythology nerd, pedantic about spelling. I also love foxes, cats, otters, and red pandas!
I love Korean Mythology. If you want to ask me about something, send me a PM!
Aig amannan bidh mi air mo ghlacadh ro mhòr an-dràsta...
I’m too muddled to properly get anything out anyway.
Ditto. Stressed with culminatings.
...of what sort?
Uhhhh like end-of-year assessments.
Oh, is that what they call them in Canada?
Yes. Sorta. Also exams.
Exams are year end tests, culminatings are year end projects.
Oh
haha imagine
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Roomba Knight, Architect of the Cataclysm, Kitsumiho! Dubbed The Fluffy Bowman by Golden. He/They
Theatre Kid, Ravenclaw, bookworm, DM, Lego fanatic, flautist, mythology nerd, pedantic about spelling. I also love foxes, cats, otters, and red pandas!
I love Korean Mythology. If you want to ask me about something, send me a PM!
Aig amannan bidh mi air mo ghlacadh ro mhòr an-dràsta...
I’m too muddled to properly get anything out anyway.
Ditto. Stressed with culminatings.
...of what sort?
Uhhhh like end-of-year assessments.
Oh, is that what they call them in Canada?
Yes. Sorta. Also exams.
Exams are year end tests, culminatings are year end projects.
Oh
haha imagine
Huh?
End-of-year projects as well as tests? We've got projects that happen throughout the year, as well as end-of-year tests, but nm besides that
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...of what sort?
Wes (i/d/g/a/f)
Fills del caos i la locura, filles de les males herbes
Trens que van descarrilar
Ara llancen pedres contra eixe ninot del vostre altar
|------extended sig------|
Sure, why not. Any advice on how to get over the fear of coming out?
- Igglywiv the Wizard
-Archmage Aaravos
I played every class, now playing every sub-class.
You would not believe how much AuDHD helps with creating campaigns!
Check out this cool roleplay thread and my dragon there!
Talk to a trusted person first
Halloween fan, Lego master, Dm, bookworm, Ravenclaw and chef.
Under 18 year old, currently posting in BST (UK time). Autistic, dyslexic as a warning I might ask you some personal questions so please don’t hate me
Master of the clouds, ruler of the sky’s and controller of the Night
Death shall come to us all, we just chose when
They told me to get a third opinion, hence this.
(Also Cloud, hello fellow autistic Ravenclaw!)
- Igglywiv the Wizard
-Archmage Aaravos
I played every class, now playing every sub-class.
You would not believe how much AuDHD helps with creating campaigns!
Check out this cool roleplay thread and my dragon there!
Hah! *awkward laugh*
It really depends. Who do you want to come out to, and what's preventing you from telling them?
Wes (i/d/g/a/f)
Fills del caos i la locura, filles de les males herbes
Trens que van descarrilar
Ara llancen pedres contra eixe ninot del vostre altar
|------extended sig------|
A friend, but I am afraid of them accidentally mentioning it to someone whom I don't want to know.
- Igglywiv the Wizard
-Archmage Aaravos
I played every class, now playing every sub-class.
You would not believe how much AuDHD helps with creating campaigns!
Check out this cool roleplay thread and my dragon there!
If it's something that you know to be true about yourself, then why be afraid about them telling others?
Wes (i/d/g/a/f)
Fills del caos i la locura, filles de les males herbes
Trens que van descarrilar
Ara llancen pedres contra eixe ninot del vostre altar
|------extended sig------|
Life reasons, but thanks. That helped.
- Igglywiv the Wizard
-Archmage Aaravos
I played every class, now playing every sub-class.
You would not believe how much AuDHD helps with creating campaigns!
Check out this cool roleplay thread and my dragon there!
Is it the ostracization that comes with it? The jokes and the hate and all? I know what you're talking about.
Would they tell someone even if you told them not to?
Wes (i/d/g/a/f)
Fills del caos i la locura, filles de les males herbes
Trens que van descarrilar
Ara llancen pedres contra eixe ninot del vostre altar
|------extended sig------|
That is the worry. And they might accidentally tell someone, that is another worry.
- Igglywiv the Wizard
-Archmage Aaravos
I played every class, now playing every sub-class.
You would not believe how much AuDHD helps with creating campaigns!
Check out this cool roleplay thread and my dragon there!
Comrade, you are not alone. I'm dealing with the same worry at the moment. I want to tell my friends, but I have no clue how they'll react, if they'll want to stay friends.
Hiya! You can call me Link. Here’s a bit about me:
Roomba Knight, Architect of the Cataclysm, Kitsumiho! Dubbed The Fluffy Bowman by Golden. He/They
Theatre Kid, Ravenclaw, bookworm, DM, Lego fanatic, flautist, mythology nerd, pedantic about spelling. I also love foxes, cats, otters, and red pandas!
I love Korean Mythology. If you want to ask me about something, send me a PM!
Aig amannan bidh mi air mo ghlacadh ro mhòr an-dràsta...I found myself in this conundrum once upon a time, and haven't told most of my friends to be honest. Having come out to my parents only two weeks ago, I don't want to say I have amazing expertise lmao, but I do want to say that it's not as hard as it seems, and honestly, why should you care what they think?
This is like them ostracizing you for being colorblind, just identity is something that's become so controversial and important. It just doesn't have to be that important. Honestly, my friends and I were having the goofiest conversation and one of them just somehow asked me "Are you gay?" rather jokingly, to which I responded "I'm bi." And that was that. No drama about it. They haven't changed, and only become better friends on the trip since then. If you overdramatize it, it'll only get worse, and honestly, unless you actually have heard people say anti-queer things, and even if they have, most will be okay with it.
Wes (i/d/g/a/f)
Fills del caos i la locura, filles de les males herbes
Trens que van descarrilar
Ara llancen pedres contra eixe ninot del vostre altar
|------extended sig------|
TL;DR: It's something about yourself, ergo it doesn't have to be stressful. Identity is overdramatized, but it's no different (or it doesn't have to be) than telling them anything else about yourself
Just ask anyone on the DDB Discord group and uh they'll tell you that I came out very calmly and everything for sure 100% fifty percent of the time perhaps if you flip a coin and ignore half of the results---
Wes (i/d/g/a/f)
Fills del caos i la locura, filles de les males herbes
Trens que van descarrilar
Ara llancen pedres contra eixe ninot del vostre altar
|------extended sig------|
Uhhhh like end-of-year assessments.
Hiya! You can call me Link. Here’s a bit about me:
Roomba Knight, Architect of the Cataclysm, Kitsumiho! Dubbed The Fluffy Bowman by Golden. He/They
Theatre Kid, Ravenclaw, bookworm, DM, Lego fanatic, flautist, mythology nerd, pedantic about spelling. I also love foxes, cats, otters, and red pandas!
I love Korean Mythology. If you want to ask me about something, send me a PM!
Aig amannan bidh mi air mo ghlacadh ro mhòr an-dràsta...Oh, is that what they call them in Canada?
Wes (i/d/g/a/f)
Fills del caos i la locura, filles de les males herbes
Trens que van descarrilar
Ara llancen pedres contra eixe ninot del vostre altar
|------extended sig------|
Yes. Sorta. Also exams.
Hiya! You can call me Link. Here’s a bit about me:
Roomba Knight, Architect of the Cataclysm, Kitsumiho! Dubbed The Fluffy Bowman by Golden. He/They
Theatre Kid, Ravenclaw, bookworm, DM, Lego fanatic, flautist, mythology nerd, pedantic about spelling. I also love foxes, cats, otters, and red pandas!
I love Korean Mythology. If you want to ask me about something, send me a PM!
Aig amannan bidh mi air mo ghlacadh ro mhòr an-dràsta...Exams are year end tests, culminatings are year end projects.
Hiya! You can call me Link. Here’s a bit about me:
Roomba Knight, Architect of the Cataclysm, Kitsumiho! Dubbed The Fluffy Bowman by Golden. He/They
Theatre Kid, Ravenclaw, bookworm, DM, Lego fanatic, flautist, mythology nerd, pedantic about spelling. I also love foxes, cats, otters, and red pandas!
I love Korean Mythology. If you want to ask me about something, send me a PM!
Aig amannan bidh mi air mo ghlacadh ro mhòr an-dràsta...Oh
haha imagine
Wes (i/d/g/a/f)
Fills del caos i la locura, filles de les males herbes
Trens que van descarrilar
Ara llancen pedres contra eixe ninot del vostre altar
|------extended sig------|
Huh?
Hiya! You can call me Link. Here’s a bit about me:
Roomba Knight, Architect of the Cataclysm, Kitsumiho! Dubbed The Fluffy Bowman by Golden. He/They
Theatre Kid, Ravenclaw, bookworm, DM, Lego fanatic, flautist, mythology nerd, pedantic about spelling. I also love foxes, cats, otters, and red pandas!
I love Korean Mythology. If you want to ask me about something, send me a PM!
Aig amannan bidh mi air mo ghlacadh ro mhòr an-dràsta...End-of-year projects as well as tests? We've got projects that happen throughout the year, as well as end-of-year tests, but nm besides that
Wes (i/d/g/a/f)
Fills del caos i la locura, filles de les males herbes
Trens que van descarrilar
Ara llancen pedres contra eixe ninot del vostre altar
|------extended sig------|