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Sooo my mum bought me ‘Trans’…(I don’t want to mention the author, but it’s a pretty anti-trans book) 

 

 Ohhhhh. Why’d she get it?

 Because I mentioned one of my friends was trans, and then my mum, her husband, and my stepbrother all got into a one sided argument with me. And then she didn’t like that I hadn’t changed my opinions so she bought me the book.

Whenever we argue, she always makes sure that someone’s on her side and then she gangs up on me. It always ends up with me shutting down cause It’s really stressful to be in that position, and then she keeps getting more angry at me because I LITERALLY cannot answer her. 

I seem to recall another instance of abuse brought upon you by your mother (not naming it here to keep your privacy). This is first and foremost abuse. You should not have to put up with this, and there should be someone there to prevent this from happening. Please find someone to intervene in these situations or speak to a professional about this, because this really has an impact and you, again, should not have to put up with this.

 

The thing is, I already had to get a professional involved for something I will not mention here(if you really want to know ask me on discord or in PMs but it’s a sensitive subject). It just caused so much stress and nothing really happened, if anything the situation got worse cause I can’t see my dad anymore(no fault of his, and it’s not legal or anything, my mum just doesn’t want me to see him anymore), and my dad was the only person I could really talk to about this situation for an unbiased opinion(my friends are gonna be biased obvs, and most of my family I don’t really feel comfortable talking to about this kind of stuff)

 

On top of all of that, I’ve got a baby sister now, and if anything big happened between me and my mum, I would probably never see her again. It’s just so difficult to know what to do tbh.

 I don’t think abuse is a matter of bias. Please find a professional, this really isn’t okay for your mom to be doing. 

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Sooo my mum bought me ‘Trans’…(I don’t want to mention the author, but it’s a pretty anti-trans book) 

 

 Ohhhhh. Why’d she get it?

 Because I mentioned one of my friends was trans, and then my mum, her husband, and my stepbrother all got into a one sided argument with me. And then she didn’t like that I hadn’t changed my opinions so she bought me the book.

Whenever we argue, she always makes sure that someone’s on her side and then she gangs up on me. It always ends up with me shutting down cause It’s really stressful to be in that position, and then she keeps getting more angry at me because I LITERALLY cannot answer her. 

I seem to recall another instance of abuse brought upon you by your mother (not naming it here to keep your privacy). This is first and foremost abuse. You should not have to put up with this, and there should be someone there to prevent this from happening. Please find someone to intervene in these situations or speak to a professional about this, because this really has an impact and you, again, should not have to put up with this.

 

The thing is, I already had to get a professional involved for something I will not mention here(if you really want to know ask me on discord or in PMs but it’s a sensitive subject). It just caused so much stress and nothing really happened, if anything the situation got worse cause I can’t see my dad anymore(no fault of his, and it’s not legal or anything, my mum just doesn’t want me to see him anymore), and my dad was the only person I could really talk to about this situation for an unbiased opinion(my friends are gonna be biased obvs, and most of my family I don’t really feel comfortable talking to about this kind of stuff)

 

On top of all of that, I’ve got a baby sister now, and if anything big happened between me and my mum, I would probably never see her again. It’s just so difficult to know what to do tbh.

 I don’t think abuse is a matter of bias. Please find a professional, this really isn’t okay for your mom to be doing. 

 Can confirm. I was in a similar situation. But I got incredibly lucky and didn't have to diffuse the situation.

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Sooo my mum bought me ‘Trans’…(I don’t want to mention the author, but it’s a pretty anti-trans book) 

 

 Ohhhhh. Why’d she get it?

 Because I mentioned one of my friends was trans, and then my mum, her husband, and my stepbrother all got into a one sided argument with me. And then she didn’t like that I hadn’t changed my opinions so she bought me the book.

Whenever we argue, she always makes sure that someone’s on her side and then she gangs up on me. It always ends up with me shutting down cause It’s really stressful to be in that position, and then she keeps getting more angry at me because I LITERALLY cannot answer her. 

I seem to recall another instance of abuse brought upon you by your mother (not naming it here to keep your privacy). This is first and foremost abuse. You should not have to put up with this, and there should be someone there to prevent this from happening. Please find someone to intervene in these situations or speak to a professional about this, because this really has an impact and you, again, should not have to put up with this.

 

The thing is, I already had to get a professional involved for something I will not mention here(if you really want to know ask me on discord or in PMs but it’s a sensitive subject). It just caused so much stress and nothing really happened, if anything the situation got worse cause I can’t see my dad anymore(no fault of his, and it’s not legal or anything, my mum just doesn’t want me to see him anymore), and my dad was the only person I could really talk to about this situation for an unbiased opinion(my friends are gonna be biased obvs, and most of my family I don’t really feel comfortable talking to about this kind of stuff)

 

On top of all of that, I’ve got a baby sister now, and if anything big happened between me and my mum, I would probably never see her again. It’s just so difficult to know what to do tbh.

Look, if your mum is abusing you in this way, you and your sister would probably go to your dad and your mother would suffer some consequences. I understand that it's hard to give up on someone like this, but, at the same time, you should consider telling someone who would take action. You at least don't deserve to live like this.

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Sooo my mum bought me ‘Trans’…(I don’t want to mention the author, but it’s a pretty anti-trans book) 

 

 Ohhhhh. Why’d she get it?

 Because I mentioned one of my friends was trans, and then my mum, her husband, and my stepbrother all got into a one sided argument with me. And then she didn’t like that I hadn’t changed my opinions so she bought me the book.

Whenever we argue, she always makes sure that someone’s on her side and then she gangs up on me. It always ends up with me shutting down cause It’s really stressful to be in that position, and then she keeps getting more angry at me because I LITERALLY cannot answer her. 

I seem to recall another instance of abuse brought upon you by your mother (not naming it here to keep your privacy). This is first and foremost abuse. You should not have to put up with this, and there should be someone there to prevent this from happening. Please find someone to intervene in these situations or speak to a professional about this, because this really has an impact and you, again, should not have to put up with this.

 

The thing is, I already had to get a professional involved for something I will not mention here(if you really want to know ask me on discord or in PMs but it’s a sensitive subject). It just caused so much stress and nothing really happened, if anything the situation got worse cause I can’t see my dad anymore(no fault of his, and it’s not legal or anything, my mum just doesn’t want me to see him anymore), and my dad was the only person I could really talk to about this situation for an unbiased opinion(my friends are gonna be biased obvs, and most of my family I don’t really feel comfortable talking to about this kind of stuff)

 

On top of all of that, I’ve got a baby sister now, and if anything big happened between me and my mum, I would probably never see her again. It’s just so difficult to know what to do tbh.

Look, if your mum is abusing you in this way, you and your sister would probably go to your dad and your mother would suffer some consequences. I understand that it's hard to give up on someone like this, but, at the same time, you should consider telling someone who would take action. You at least don't deserve to live like this.

 It is a hard choice to make, but if you do do it then it will/should vastly improve your life or mental health

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Sooo my mum bought me ‘Trans’…(I don’t want to mention the author, but it’s a pretty anti-trans book) 

 

 Ohhhhh. Why’d she get it?

 Because I mentioned one of my friends was trans, and then my mum, her husband, and my stepbrother all got into a one sided argument with me. And then she didn’t like that I hadn’t changed my opinions so she bought me the book.

Whenever we argue, she always makes sure that someone’s on her side and then she gangs up on me. It always ends up with me shutting down cause It’s really stressful to be in that position, and then she keeps getting more angry at me because I LITERALLY cannot answer her. 

I seem to recall another instance of abuse brought upon you by your mother (not naming it here to keep your privacy). This is first and foremost abuse. You should not have to put up with this, and there should be someone there to prevent this from happening. Please find someone to intervene in these situations or speak to a professional about this, because this really has an impact and you, again, should not have to put up with this.

 

The thing is, I already had to get a professional involved for something I will not mention here(if you really want to know ask me on discord or in PMs but it’s a sensitive subject). It just caused so much stress and nothing really happened, if anything the situation got worse cause I can’t see my dad anymore(no fault of his, and it’s not legal or anything, my mum just doesn’t want me to see him anymore), and my dad was the only person I could really talk to about this situation for an unbiased opinion(my friends are gonna be biased obvs, and most of my family I don’t really feel comfortable talking to about this kind of stuff)

 

On top of all of that, I’ve got a baby sister now, and if anything big happened between me and my mum, I would probably never see her again. It’s just so difficult to know what to do tbh.

Look, if your mum is abusing you in this way, you and your sister would probably go to your dad and your mother would suffer some consequences. I understand that it's hard to give up on someone like this, but, at the same time, you should consider telling someone who would take action. You at least don't deserve to live like this.

 I think you probably are going to have to talk to your dad about this, like this is absolutely not ok, this is abuse, and you need to tell someone about this, otherwise it literally will only get worse. This should not be happening. You have to tell someone who can do something about it.