Whether you're a new player or a veteran of the game, finding a Dungeons & Dragons group can be challenging. If you've only just discovered D&D, you might be the only person you know who wants to play. But don’t despair. D&D is more popular now than it’s ever been before, and there are plenty of ways to find a gaming group. Here are three ways you can start your first D&D group:
- Ask Your Friends to Play
- Find a D&D Group Online
- Find a D&D Group at Your Local Gaming Store
- What You Need to Start Playing
Forming a D&D Group? Be Prepared to Run the Game
If you want to form a D&D group, be prepared to be the Dungeon Master (DM) — that is, the person who creates the dungeons, plays the NPCs, and otherwise sets the scene in-game and organizes the game sessions in real life. Being the DM can be a lot of work, but it’s incredibly fun, and being a DM means you’ll always be in hot demand when people want to play.
1. Ask Your friends to Play
Even if you don’t think your friends are the sort of people who would want to play D&D, consider asking! Folks who tend to take an interest in D&D typically enjoy other “geeky” activities — like reading fantasy novels, watching fantasy films and shows, writing, and playing video games. Of course, you don’t have to look any farther than Joe Manganiello or Travis Willingham to see that even folks who don’t look like a geek stereotype can love the game In fact, sports-lovers can become some of the most die-hard D&D players, once the adrenaline of fighting monsters kicks in.
It’s almost always better to start by suggesting a single one-shot game of D&D than trying to plan a whole campaign right off the bat — even if that’s what you want to do most. Let people dip their feet into the water before leaping into the deep end.
Once everyone’s all together, you might notice that people just want to socialize and be pals rather than play D&D. Don’t worry about this. They came here because you invited them to play D&D; they have school or work just like anyone else, and they have steam to blow off in casual conversation before they can buckle in to learn the ins and outs of a brand new roleplaying game. If people want to chat, don’t cut them off. Just hang out for a half-hour or so before getting everyone around the kitchen table to play.
Share Your Books With Friends
Although you can play Dungeons & Dragons for free by using the basic rules, players will discover tons of additional character options in the Player's Handbook. Similarly, DMs will find helpful tools and tips for running the game in the Dungeon Master's Guide. If you've bought any books in the D&D Beyond marketplace, you can unlock them for your friends by signing up for a Master-tier subscription. This is a great way to introduce friends to the game who might not yet be interested in purchasing any of the books.
2. Find a D&D Group Online
Whether you're seeking a group to play with online or just local groups in your area, the internet is a great place to find like-minded fans of the game. D&D Beyond offers two resources for finding groups:
- Looking for Players & Groups board in the D&D Beyond forums
- Specific channels in the D&D Beyond Discord
Joining a Play-by-Post game is a great alternative for those with a tricky schedule or who just love the written word. These types of campaigns are run entirely in the forums. The DM and the players type out everything that happens in the game and roll dice in replies. A play-by-post game can be a safe environment for you to learn the game at your own pace.
If you find and join an online D&D group, you'll want to ensure your internet connection is stable and that you've reduced background noise to minimize distractions in-game. As with games that happen in person, take plenty of notes and do your best to stay focused.
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3. Find a Group at Your Local Gaming Store
When you're trying to find a D&D group, your local game store is another great place to start. Most gaming stores and hobby shops have at least one of two things: a bulletin board where groups can post flyers looking for new players or groups of people playing D&D Adventurers League. Both can land you a seat in a game. (Not sure where to find a store? The Wizards of the Coast website has a store and event locator.)
Ask the staff if their store hosts any D&D events. Some have a weekly D&D Adventurers League night, where you'll pay a small entry fee to join a group of players in a game. As people can freely jump in and out of games from one week to the next, you'll meet plenty of new and veteran players. Keep in mind, Adventurers League sessions tend to be more focused on combat and overcoming game challenges than roleplay. If you want a story-telling-focused experience, joining a group might be preferable depending on the DM.
If you're interested in joining a local D&D group, be upfront about your experience level, what you're looking for in a campaign, and what your schedule looks like. Every DM has a unique style and prefers to run their campaigns in a certain way. You'll want to ensure your playstyle aligns with theirs and their group's. Further, when getting to know new people, trust your instincts and don’t play with those who make you uncomfortable.
Don't Overlook Your Local Library or School
Your local library could be another way to find a group to play with. Ask the front desk if the library runs any games or would be open to you running a game of your own. Chances are, if there's a lack of D&D groups in your area, you can attract players by posting a notice at your library. Similarly, if you're in school, seek out any gaming clubs or start one of your own. A video game or board game club could be the perfect place for you to find other people interested in the game.
What You Need to Start Playing
If you and your friends are new to Dungeons & Dragons, you'll need to learn how to play! The basic rules of the game are free on D&D Beyond. Don't feel pressured to memorize everything, however. What's most important is that each of the players has a character to play and the Dungeon Master has an adventure to run.
Use the free character builder to easily make a character. The free introductory adventure Intro to Stormwreck Isle, which leads into Dragons of Stormwreck Isle, is great for new Dungeon Masters and players.
James Haeck (@jamesjhaeck) is the former lead writer for D&D Beyond, the co-author of Waterdeep: Dragon Heist, Baldur's Gate: Descent into Avernus, and the Critical Role Explorer's Guide to Wildemount, a member of the Guild Adepts, and a freelance writer for Wizards of the Coast, the D&D Adventurers League, and other RPG companies. He lives in Seattle with his fiancée, Hannah, and their animal companions Mei and Marzipan.
r/lfg
If your friends say no offer them 20 bucks
Worked for me!
Ahahaha that's actually brilliant!!! That's the best suggestion if you're really needing a group Ahahaha that made my morning. Awesome.
You are welcome, my friend!
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Supernumerary_Person the suggestion is deep - Marcus_Junius166 was suggesting we think outside the box - and kick it old-school ----> barter. I'm certain you've developed a skill or an ability you could barter, else return a favor for a favor with friends. But as 166 suggested, think outside the normal and be super: for example, you'd be better off exchanging that $20 you've pay a friend and just create a meetup account...I'm confident you'd find people joining your group (and if there are none locally to meet in person, because you live a very remote, secluded city like Glasgow, Montana, then you can always meetup with your group online).
Discord. Roll20. That's the HUB I found. I just started looking into this space Today.
Is there anyone to play with?
I guess it depends on time, availability, and interest.
yeah, I guess so.
How do you play online? What software, or hosting sites do you use? Also, are there many (or any) people in their mid-60's that play? I played a few times in the late 1970's, and loved it; however, the people I played with relocated, and I couldn't find anyone else to play with, so I'm essentially a newby.
Usually, you'd join a dnd discord server and find a campaign you're interested in. It's quite simple and there are people of all ages on there! Hope this helps!! Pm me if you need help :)
i just started and i don't know what to do or play
join a discord server!!
ok
Nowadays, there's discord, other chat rooms, and roll 20 to find groups or DMs or players. Also, maybe some of your friends just need the smallest "taste" of DND.
My personal recommendation:
Think of at least 2 people you know (technically you only NEED one person other than yourself to play simple DND but two is better)
1. that you're either already good friends with/know very well (well enough to talk to them)
2. OR people that you want to get to know better (maybe girl/boyfriend)
DND can potentially be a fun date or mini "time killer". DND is great even with time constraints (time limits). Simply ask these people if they wanna "play" some DND or perhaps casually bring it up mid conversation in a fun way. Don't give it up even if you're refused many times but be careful not to force it either, be considerate
One of the ways I developed an interest in the game was by playing other types of it. (Although I didn't realize it at the time)
While in school (or at home) if I was ever bored and had a friend nearby I could talk to (which was rare) We'd take turns (mostly me) telling made up Choose Your Own adventure stories and sometimes we even drew parts of the story on paper to explain it better. I say this to prove you can play dnd anywhere at anytime its very adaptable. Try playing small simple short adventures like this with people who are your friends, while it might not make them interested in "official" dnd it will be a good time with your buddies - which is why dnd is even played in groups at all.
Hilarious but no.
I will not give up.