It wont help when you feel like yout entir family hate you
Helps me just fine
It may help you, but it also (GP) hurts no matter what you do
Maybe for you, but not for me. That or ignoring it until I genuinely stopped caring. But a better solution for you if you can’t fill the void yourself is to spend some time with your friends
I let the void consume me. Dont do that. 0/10 do not recommend. Its really hard to get emotions back once you lose them
Yeah I would not recommend for most people.
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Somewhere between a genius and a moron.
Empathy is hard
Be the change you want to see in the world. Or don't. That works too.
It wont help when you feel like yout entir family hate you
Helps me just fine
It may help you, but it also (GP) hurts no matter what you do
Maybe for you, but not for me. That or ignoring it until I genuinely stopped caring. But a better solution for you if you can’t fill the void yourself is to spend some time with your friends
I have spent 14 years loving my family, and you want me to leave them
When did I say that? I only offer up booking it when parents are physically abusive, or mentally to the point of which you become a danger to yourself.
They're not, and she does it because she's redoing collage now
Alright so let me get this straight. You feel that your mom doesn’t love you, which is fair. But, she’s also redoing college, which is pretty dang rough when you also have to care for a child. My guess is that she feels that you’re old enough to be fine, but doesn’t realize that she’s leaving you emotionally starving. My advice is to try and make her understand how she’s making you feel
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Somewhere between a genius and a moron.
Empathy is hard
Be the change you want to see in the world. Or don't. That works too.
It wont help when you feel like yout entir family hate you
Helps me just fine
It may help you, but it also (GP) hurts no matter what you do
Maybe for you, but not for me. That or ignoring it until I genuinely stopped caring. But a better solution for you if you can’t fill the void yourself is to spend some time with your friends
I have spent 14 years loving my family, and you want me to leave them
When did I say that? I only offer up booking it when parents are physically abusive, or mentally to the point of which you become a danger to yourself.
They're not, and she does it because she's redoing collage now
Alright so let me get this straight. You feel that your mom doesn’t love you, which is fair. But, she’s also redoing college, which is pretty dang rough when you also have to care for a child. My guess is that she feels that you’re old enough to be fine, but doesn’t realize that she’s leaving you emotionally starving. My advice is to try and make her understand how she’s making you feel
I told her yesterday
no change
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Hello! Call me Gato (Cat in Spanish) In this place where you're not here, in this place where I was with you Your eyes are too kind, and I'm covered in wounds. Don't let me love you. They say people are born different. We brainwashed in the same system. They expect perfection. So how can we be different? NOW, ALL HAIL MERLIN, AND THE GREAT MERLIN ARMY. GIVE ME A 4D8 ATTEMPT: [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll]=[roll][roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll]
Gato, you should bring up your discomfort and feelings with your family.
Even if you've done it before, try again. Make the severity clear.
I did actually
Yesterday night, I told her about, like, maybe a quarter of the things that I could tell her
Tell her about everything. Make her listen. Even if it's uncomfortable, it's important to let her know.
You're her child. She's obligated to care.
And i cant tell her
because she still thinks that im her perfect child, and i have no problems
What, you think you'll disappoint her?
You think she won't love you anymore?
Bull.
You are important. You are a living person and you deserve to be treated like one. You deserve to feel that one.
Get out of your own way and fix the issue.
I also was stupid and made the stupid secrets the main part of my identity, which means that I feel like if i tell her them. We won't ever have another deep conversation
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Hello! Call me Gato (Cat in Spanish) In this place where you're not here, in this place where I was with you Your eyes are too kind, and I'm covered in wounds. Don't let me love you. They say people are born different. We brainwashed in the same system. They expect perfection. So how can we be different? NOW, ALL HAIL MERLIN, AND THE GREAT MERLIN ARMY. GIVE ME A 4D8 ATTEMPT: [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll]=[roll][roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll]
Gato, you should bring up your discomfort and feelings with your family.
Even if you've done it before, try again. Make the severity clear.
I did actually
Yesterday night, I told her about, like, maybe a quarter of the things that I could tell her
Tell her about everything. Make her listen. Even if it's uncomfortable, it's important to let her know.
You're her child. She's obligated to care.
And i cant tell her
because she still thinks that im her perfect child, and i have no problems
What, you think you'll disappoint her?
You think she won't love you anymore?
Bull.
You are important. You are a living person and you deserve to be treated like one. You deserve to feel that one.
Get out of your own way and fix the issue.
I also was stupid and made the stupid secrets the main part of my identity, which means that I feel like if i tell her them. We won't ever have another deep conversation
Then that’s on her. If she can’t accept you for who you are, then she’s a crappy parent, you deserve better and she needs to grow up
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Somewhere between a genius and a moron.
Empathy is hard
Be the change you want to see in the world. Or don't. That works too.
You are important. You are a living person and you deserve to be treated like one. You deserve to feel that one.
Get out of your own way and fix the issue.
I also was stupid and made the stupid secrets the main part of my identity, which means that I feel like if i tell her them. We won't ever have another deep conversation
The deepest conversations come when you're willing to talk about those things, Gato.
None of us are there to bail you out. You have to do it yourself.
Gato, you should bring up your discomfort and feelings with your family.
Even if you've done it before, try again. Make the severity clear.
I did actually
Yesterday night, I told her about, like, maybe a quarter of the things that I could tell her
Tell her about everything. Make her listen. Even if it's uncomfortable, it's important to let her know.
You're her child. She's obligated to care.
And i cant tell her
because she still thinks that im her perfect child, and i have no problems
What, you think you'll disappoint her?
You think she won't love you anymore?
Bull.
You are important. You are a living person and you deserve to be treated like one. You deserve to feel that one.
Get out of your own way and fix the issue.
I also was stupid and made the stupid secrets the main part of my identity, which means that I feel like if i tell her them. We won't ever have another deep conversation
Then that’s on her. If she can’t accept you for who you are, then she’s a crappy parent, you deserve better and she needs to grow up
I think it might also be playing on my fear of adults not knowing what i mean when I refer to things
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Hello! Call me Gato (Cat in Spanish) In this place where you're not here, in this place where I was with you Your eyes are too kind, and I'm covered in wounds. Don't let me love you. They say people are born different. We brainwashed in the same system. They expect perfection. So how can we be different? NOW, ALL HAIL MERLIN, AND THE GREAT MERLIN ARMY. GIVE ME A 4D8 ATTEMPT: [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll]=[roll][roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll]
Gato, you should bring up your discomfort and feelings with your family.
Even if you've done it before, try again. Make the severity clear.
I did actually
Yesterday night, I told her about, like, maybe a quarter of the things that I could tell her
Tell her about everything. Make her listen. Even if it's uncomfortable, it's important to let her know.
You're her child. She's obligated to care.
And i cant tell her
because she still thinks that im her perfect child, and i have no problems
What, you think you'll disappoint her?
You think she won't love you anymore?
Bull.
You are important. You are a living person and you deserve to be treated like one. You deserve to feel that one.
Get out of your own way and fix the issue.
I also was stupid and made the stupid secrets the main part of my identity, which means that I feel like if i tell her them. We won't ever have another deep conversation
Then that’s on her. If she can’t accept you for who you are, then she’s a crappy parent, you deserve better and she needs to grow up
I think it might also be playing on my fear of adults not knowing what i mean when I refer to things
Humans came up with this cool thing called language so we could explain things to each other. If they misunderstand you, tell them and clarify what you meant
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I’m a decent DM and an above average rules lawyer
I have several complete Pokedexes | I may be stupid, but at least I’m not smart!
My favorite characters from dead threads; AMA: Aria, Rade, Kiano & Luz, Juniper, Ezra & Dr. Paine, Xi & his siblings, MisaStay Paranoid!!!
Gato, you should bring up your discomfort and feelings with your family.
Even if you've done it before, try again. Make the severity clear.
I did actually
Yesterday night, I told her about, like, maybe a quarter of the things that I could tell her
Tell her about everything. Make her listen. Even if it's uncomfortable, it's important to let her know.
You're her child. She's obligated to care.
And i cant tell her
because she still thinks that im her perfect child, and i have no problems
What, you think you'll disappoint her?
You think she won't love you anymore?
Bull.
You are important. You are a living person and you deserve to be treated like one. You deserve to feel that one.
Get out of your own way and fix the issue.
I also was stupid and made the stupid secrets the main part of my identity, which means that I feel like if i tell her them. We won't ever have another deep conversation
Then that’s on her. If she can’t accept you for who you are, then she’s a crappy parent, you deserve better and she needs to grow up
I think it might also be playing on my fear of adults not knowing what i mean when I refer to things
Humans came up with this cool thing called language so we could explain things to each other. If they misunderstand you, tell them and clarify what you meant
i also, too, make this all the more confusing
I got baptized on Sunday, and before that, I decided that I am an atheist. HOW DO YOU WANT ME TO TELL ME MOTHER THAT?
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Hello! Call me Gato (Cat in Spanish) In this place where you're not here, in this place where I was with you Your eyes are too kind, and I'm covered in wounds. Don't let me love you. They say people are born different. We brainwashed in the same system. They expect perfection. So how can we be different? NOW, ALL HAIL MERLIN, AND THE GREAT MERLIN ARMY. GIVE ME A 4D8 ATTEMPT: [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll]=[roll][roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll]
Gato, you should bring up your discomfort and feelings with your family.
Even if you've done it before, try again. Make the severity clear.
I did actually
Yesterday night, I told her about, like, maybe a quarter of the things that I could tell her
Tell her about everything. Make her listen. Even if it's uncomfortable, it's important to let her know.
You're her child. She's obligated to care.
And i cant tell her
because she still thinks that im her perfect child, and i have no problems
What, you think you'll disappoint her?
You think she won't love you anymore?
Bull.
You are important. You are a living person and you deserve to be treated like one. You deserve to feel that one.
Get out of your own way and fix the issue.
I also was stupid and made the stupid secrets the main part of my identity, which means that I feel like if i tell her them. We won't ever have another deep conversation
Then that’s on her. If she can’t accept you for who you are, then she’s a crappy parent, you deserve better and she needs to grow up
I think it might also be playing on my fear of adults not knowing what i mean when I refer to things
Humans came up with this cool thing called language so we could explain things to each other. If they misunderstand you, tell them and clarify what you meant
i also, too, make this all the more confusing
I got baptized on Sunday, and before that, I decided that I am an atheist. HOW DO YOU WANT ME TO TELL ME MOTHER THAT?
Tell her that she shouldn't be able to tell you what to believe in, and that just because she believes in something, doesn't mean you need to do the same. She is your mother. She will love you. You just need to explain to her what's going on. It may be hard, but in the end, being open with her will feel better than keeping these secrets.
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The clocks run out, too late to wake up. You're locked under this nightmare's thumb. Begging you hide and run.
Gato, you should bring up your discomfort and feelings with your family.
Even if you've done it before, try again. Make the severity clear.
I did actually
Yesterday night, I told her about, like, maybe a quarter of the things that I could tell her
Tell her about everything. Make her listen. Even if it's uncomfortable, it's important to let her know.
You're her child. She's obligated to care.
And i cant tell her
because she still thinks that im her perfect child, and i have no problems
What, you think you'll disappoint her?
You think she won't love you anymore?
Bull.
You are important. You are a living person and you deserve to be treated like one. You deserve to feel that one.
Get out of your own way and fix the issue.
I also was stupid and made the stupid secrets the main part of my identity, which means that I feel like if i tell her them. We won't ever have another deep conversation
Then that’s on her. If she can’t accept you for who you are, then she’s a crappy parent, you deserve better and she needs to grow up
I think it might also be playing on my fear of adults not knowing what i mean when I refer to things
Humans came up with this cool thing called language so we could explain things to each other. If they misunderstand you, tell them and clarify what you meant
i also, too, make this all the more confusing
I got baptized on Sunday, and before that, I decided that I am an atheist. HOW DO YOU WANT ME TO TELL ME MOTHER THAT?
Tell her that she shouldn't be able to tell you what to believe in, and that just because she believes in something, doesn't mean you need to do the same. She is your mother. She will love you. You just need to explain to her what's going on. It may be hard, but in the end, being open with her will feel better than keeping these secrets.
But i dont know...
ive been the person that was perfect in my family, until four months ago
so. much... has... chaanged...
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Hello! Call me Gato (Cat in Spanish) In this place where you're not here, in this place where I was with you Your eyes are too kind, and I'm covered in wounds. Don't let me love you. They say people are born different. We brainwashed in the same system. They expect perfection. So how can we be different? NOW, ALL HAIL MERLIN, AND THE GREAT MERLIN ARMY. GIVE ME A 4D8 ATTEMPT: [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll]=[roll][roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll]
Gato, you should bring up your discomfort and feelings with your family.
Even if you've done it before, try again. Make the severity clear.
I did actually
Yesterday night, I told her about, like, maybe a quarter of the things that I could tell her
Tell her about everything. Make her listen. Even if it's uncomfortable, it's important to let her know.
You're her child. She's obligated to care.
And i cant tell her
because she still thinks that im her perfect child, and i have no problems
What, you think you'll disappoint her?
You think she won't love you anymore?
Bull.
You are important. You are a living person and you deserve to be treated like one. You deserve to feel that one.
Get out of your own way and fix the issue.
I also was stupid and made the stupid secrets the main part of my identity, which means that I feel like if i tell her them. We won't ever have another deep conversation
Then that’s on her. If she can’t accept you for who you are, then she’s a crappy parent, you deserve better and she needs to grow up
I think it might also be playing on my fear of adults not knowing what i mean when I refer to things
Humans came up with this cool thing called language so we could explain things to each other. If they misunderstand you, tell them and clarify what you meant
i also, too, make this all the more confusing
I got baptized on Sunday, and before that, I decided that I am an atheist. HOW DO YOU WANT ME TO TELL ME MOTHER THAT?
Tell her that she shouldn't be able to tell you what to believe in, and that just because she believes in something, doesn't mean you need to do the same. She is your mother. She will love you. You just need to explain to her what's going on. It may be hard, but in the end, being open with her will feel better than keeping these secrets.
But i dont know...
ive been the person that was perfect in my family, until four months ago
so. much... has... chaanged...
HEre's the thing
You don't need to be perfect
You can't be perfect
Your family shouldn't want you to be perfect
They want you to be you
Has your mother ever said that she needed you to be perfect
Has anyone ever said that you need to be perfect
IF they have, they are wrong
You shouldn't have to be perfect
Because you can't be perfect
Nobody can be perfect
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The clocks run out, too late to wake up. You're locked under this nightmare's thumb. Begging you hide and run.
I got baptized on Sunday, and before that, I decided that I am an atheist. HOW DO YOU WANT ME TO TELL ME MOTHER THAT?
I'm not going to say much here or try to convince you of anything since I don't know your situation at all really and there's a screen between us. Your relationship with your mother will be one of the most important relationships in your life. You should be as open and truthful with her as possible. Speak to her honestly and give her the grace you want her to show you. Don't tell her you are a christian if you aren't. Lies kill a relationship and they kill you.
Yeah I would not recommend for most people.
Somewhere between a genius and a moron.
Empathy is hard
Be the change you want to see in the world. Or don't. That works too.
Alright so let me get this straight. You feel that your mom doesn’t love you, which is fair. But, she’s also redoing college, which is pretty dang rough when you also have to care for a child. My guess is that she feels that you’re old enough to be fine, but doesn’t realize that she’s leaving you emotionally starving. My advice is to try and make her understand how she’s making you feel
Somewhere between a genius and a moron.
Empathy is hard
Be the change you want to see in the world. Or don't. That works too.
I told her yesterday
no change
Hello! Call me Gato (Cat in Spanish)
In this place where you're not here, in this place where I was with you
Your eyes are too kind, and I'm covered in wounds. Don't let me love you.
They say people are born different. We brainwashed in the same system. They expect perfection. So how can we be different?
NOW, ALL HAIL MERLIN, AND THE GREAT MERLIN ARMY. GIVE ME A 4D8 ATTEMPT: [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll]=[roll][roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll]
What, you think you'll disappoint her?
You think she won't love you anymore?
Bull.
You are important. You are a living person and you deserve to be treated like one. You deserve to feel that one.
Get out of your own way and fix the issue.
Let him who is without sin cast the first stone.
Forever burdenless and terminally live!
I also was stupid and made the stupid secrets the main part of my identity, which means that I feel like if i tell her them. We won't ever have another deep conversation
Hello! Call me Gato (Cat in Spanish)
In this place where you're not here, in this place where I was with you
Your eyes are too kind, and I'm covered in wounds. Don't let me love you.
They say people are born different. We brainwashed in the same system. They expect perfection. So how can we be different?
NOW, ALL HAIL MERLIN, AND THE GREAT MERLIN ARMY. GIVE ME A 4D8 ATTEMPT: [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll]=[roll][roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll]
Preach brother
Somewhere between a genius and a moron.
Empathy is hard
Be the change you want to see in the world. Or don't. That works too.
Then that’s on her. If she can’t accept you for who you are, then she’s a crappy parent, you deserve better and she needs to grow up
Somewhere between a genius and a moron.
Empathy is hard
Be the change you want to see in the world. Or don't. That works too.
The deepest conversations come when you're willing to talk about those things, Gato.
None of us are there to bail you out. You have to do it yourself.
You have to trust yourself. Love yourself.
Just try for me, alright?
Let him who is without sin cast the first stone.
Forever burdenless and terminally live!
I think it might also be playing on my fear of adults not knowing what i mean when I refer to things
Hello! Call me Gato (Cat in Spanish)
In this place where you're not here, in this place where I was with you
Your eyes are too kind, and I'm covered in wounds. Don't let me love you.
They say people are born different. We brainwashed in the same system. They expect perfection. So how can we be different?
NOW, ALL HAIL MERLIN, AND THE GREAT MERLIN ARMY. GIVE ME A 4D8 ATTEMPT: [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll]=[roll][roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll]
Humans came up with this cool thing called language so we could explain things to each other. If they misunderstand you, tell them and clarify what you meant
I’m a decent DM and an above average rules lawyer
I have several complete Pokedexes | I may be stupid, but at least I’m not smart!
My favorite characters from dead threads; AMA: Aria, Rade, Kiano & Luz, Juniper, Ezra & Dr. Paine, Xi & his siblings, Misa Stay Paranoid!!!
My Drummer given title is… Swift as the Dragon
May the dice roll ever in your favor
i also, too, make this all the more confusing
I got baptized on Sunday, and before that, I decided that I am an atheist. HOW DO YOU WANT ME TO TELL ME MOTHER THAT?
Hello! Call me Gato (Cat in Spanish)
In this place where you're not here, in this place where I was with you
Your eyes are too kind, and I'm covered in wounds. Don't let me love you.
They say people are born different. We brainwashed in the same system. They expect perfection. So how can we be different?
NOW, ALL HAIL MERLIN, AND THE GREAT MERLIN ARMY. GIVE ME A 4D8 ATTEMPT: [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll]=[roll][roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll]
Ello mates
'tis I
What is a good creepypasta to watch
Artise
Totally not part Asian
Has cars (cats)
Feed the Pig
It's seriously (GP)ed up, man.
Let him who is without sin cast the first stone.
Forever burdenless and terminally live!
... The heck bro
Artise
Totally not part Asian
Has cars (cats)
Abandoned by Disney
It's less (GP)ed up, man.
Let him who is without sin cast the first stone.
Forever burdenless and terminally live!
Yayy
Artise
Totally not part Asian
Has cars (cats)
Tell her that she shouldn't be able to tell you what to believe in, and that just because she believes in something, doesn't mean you need to do the same. She is your mother. She will love you. You just need to explain to her what's going on. It may be hard, but in the end, being open with her will feel better than keeping these secrets.
The clocks run out, too late to wake up.
You're locked under this nightmare's thumb.
Begging you hide and run.
W H A T H A V E I B E C O M E ?
But i dont know...
ive been the person that was perfect in my family, until four months ago
so. much... has... chaanged...
Hello! Call me Gato (Cat in Spanish)
In this place where you're not here, in this place where I was with you
Your eyes are too kind, and I'm covered in wounds. Don't let me love you.
They say people are born different. We brainwashed in the same system. They expect perfection. So how can we be different?
NOW, ALL HAIL MERLIN, AND THE GREAT MERLIN ARMY. GIVE ME A 4D8 ATTEMPT: [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll] + [roll]1d8[/roll]=[roll][roll:-4]+[roll:-3]+[roll:-2]+[roll:-1][/roll]
HEre's the thing
You don't need to be perfect
You can't be perfect
Your family shouldn't want you to be perfect
They want you to be you
Has your mother ever said that she needed you to be perfect
Has anyone ever said that you need to be perfect
IF they have, they are wrong
You shouldn't have to be perfect
Because you can't be perfect
Nobody can be perfect
The clocks run out, too late to wake up.
You're locked under this nightmare's thumb.
Begging you hide and run.
W H A T H A V E I B E C O M E ?
I'm not going to say much here or try to convince you of anything since I don't know your situation at all really and there's a screen between us. Your relationship with your mother will be one of the most important relationships in your life. You should be as open and truthful with her as possible. Speak to her honestly and give her the grace you want her to show you. Don't tell her you are a christian if you aren't. Lies kill a relationship and they kill you.